One sentence....which includes rights and obligation of spouse....makes me concerned exactly what you imply? Though I admit to also be confused by the red and white sentence, referring I believe to colour. My advice is to check spelling, but more so the grammar of the statement, so they are easier to understand, avoiding further confusion. Maybe with an edited profile, it will be easier to understand, though the travel part seems clear, and any lady will understand that part. Niah
I was wondering where New York India was??? Then saw you were in the UK, with dreams of going to Paris....which is so close....then the last comment....answered my question indirectly.....
With 24 views and already a favourite, you are doing well, but I would be cautious with any shopping lists of what a lady needs to be to be considered... Life is always compromise, and if a lady feels she fits only 3 or 4 of your must have's....she may not consider contact, so I would remove the majority of them. I believe the middle photo is the better one, because it has less background. Apart from that, a good start....Niah
Well to address the comment regarding loading your profile photos. Everyone knows how to send emails...or send by old style snail post....so take advantage and send your photo to CS either way, and they will load on your behalf as they did mine..... so that destroys that myth. You prefer younger ladies and like live concerts.....that is the main gist I got from your profile, which means you need to expand on subjects, and without seeing a photo, many ladies would hold back from any meeting. You are new, so time will show how the ladies view you, but photo's or expanded text are important.....and for any lady to attend a function with you, transport/distance needs to be easy. So maybe you should start by sending flowers to ladies within a radius of where you live...and go from there.... Niah
I may be totally wrong, but I believe the majority of ladies will read the profile, accepting it as your right of choice until they reach the part regarding a lady you are seeking.... To realise you come with a shopping list that they must fit in with.....exactly.......that is when most ladies will move on.....quickly because I believe this is no profile of a man who treats a lady as special in his life and an equal. Niah
I always find it confusing why people restrict themselves so much....and as you state DATING, the quickest way forward is to access all ladies in your age range who live in your area by message....but I guarantee, DATING will not be given as their choice for meeting someone... Meaning it sounds like lack of commitment from you. To date means you have to be able to meet easily, so no long distance trips, certainly not flights, so why are you bored? Start sending flowers, and use your writing skills, because negative remarks get you nowhere. Oh.....and no photo is not going to help either, so maybe think your best way forward..... Niah
Your photo looks like one that has been altered.....and will not encourage ladies to contact you. The boxed information seem fine, but without back-up from written text and photo's, it isn't enough. You have made a start, but truthfully I would edit, and a re-start with all new photo's, and one that aren't posed but taken from your general life situations. Develop the written text, making sure the part about you and the lady you hope to meet, differs. It isn't good to state you are handsome etc....that is for the ladies to decide for themselves....so I guess I am saying best start again..... Flowers are a good way to contact ladies.....and TAGs for personal interests......Niah
I thought you had an original, though rather long entry to your profile.....but by the end, I considered another angle. We have little of no control who we fall in love with, yet your 'heart' comes with a shopping list she has to tick off....before she makes contact making your profile very restrictive. Dreams and reality are rarely the same.....but on the positive side, your photo's show the person you are, you have 2 favourites, so communications much be fine and the boxes are all filled in clearly...just give it some thought after reading through. Niah
I actually believe you really are looking for dating, and if it goes further, all the better. However I wonder if you have considered the restrictions you place on yourself, as it means for a friend to be close enough to date on a regular basis, she has to be local....or in easy access. So you have the initial way forward, and that is to send flowers to all ladies within a radius who you find attractive and would like to meet. Even if only half agree to meet you, it should keep you busy for awhile, so I see no problem in meeting ladies, just the restrictions as I mentioned. Might be wise to add a couple of photo's which can give variety to those already posted, but on the whole, a good profile.... Niah
You have also left me confused, because I find it difficult that a teacher, though not sure what subject, you use 'wanna' in your written text, something a professor would rarely do.... I find all photo's rather posed, which would not be viewed favourable by most ladies, especially as you say nothing about what type of lady you are seeking.....and a mature lady, would certainly note that. Niah
By drawing attention to different topics, then adding they do not effect you is rather odd, as most would not find it important to mention them anyway. Especially if they were indifferent to them. Punctuation is confusing, and although you shared a few thing about yourself, the reader will learn little about you from what's written. Not quite sure where this mature lady is preferred to be living, as most would want to meet before committing, as in cyberspace we know getting to know someone is difficult. Maybe you must consider if you would visit her or her you.... You have 2 favourites, so your social skills seem to be working, but I do believe you could add a few more photo's giving variations, and the written text could be improved on. Maybe adding what you hope to share with a lady will help, because mature ladies usually ask more question and expect more in return than a younger female. Niah
I will answer the question regarding your photo first, because you refer to it as 'pics,' but I see the same photo cropped and presented 3 times. My advice is to source 7 different photo's to give variety to your profile and if I did comment on the posted one, it would be it is too posed. Next I will focus on the profile review, starting with your location which is where you are hoping to meet a lady from, so it seem logical that you will message ladies you find attractive and use TAGS to link with those who share your hobbies. Send flowers to ladies who drop into your viewer, and very quickly you will have contact with lots of females. It is however up to you to make them your friends by good communication. Niah
Well you are young compared with many others on CS, but I am sure there are young ladies here the same age. I would suggest you expand the profile with a selection of photo's, some full length. Females are considered more mature than males, so I do wonder about the ages you seek a partner from, but time will tell. You could focus on sending flowers to young ladies in your area who fit the age range and share your hobbies, which I think if you listed, you could also TAG to short cut a group of local ladies. The photo's do need improving, but gradually I am sure you will improve the profile to suit your needs. Niah
Most ladies consider how they would feel if their partner joined a dating site to meet and date other ladies, and for that reason with no future in the relationship, will not respond. But realising that dating means someone who lives in your close locality, would also cause problems, so I am left rather confused? Niah
Your profile question that you...... are looking.....makes me wonder exactly what for. If you hope a lady will neatly fit into your lifestyle, ticking all your boxes, then sadly I don't think it will happen. Mixed messages is a comment I could make, but you do state dating but I believe no commitment is more fitting, and I believe ladies will also read the profile and reach the same conclusion. Maybe give the profile some serious thought, then edit remembering ladies have options too. But I would suggest you use TAGs for motorcycles, as it is a direct route to ladies who share that interest. Niah
I think you need to improve the photo's posted, and as the one with long hair doesn't actually show the face clearly, so hardly a useful comment. The written text doesn't flow and is difficult to follow because it lacks punctuation and capitals to start a sentence. The boxed text is okay, and although the views to your profile has reached the hundreds, you do have 1 favourite, so good but that need to be developed. Niah
thanks for your answer......and I see you have a restriction on the area you are looking.....which might not be wise either. Think about it, ladies to suddenly relocate. Some may have gone to France and Spain, maybe further and are considering moving back to the UK because of recent changes. They should be allowed to contact you, not those who haven't ventured away from the UK, as they may not want to because of family etc... I believe you need the more confident and adventurous who travel and isn't worried about change of lifestyle in middle age...... Niah
With only 75 views and already a favourite posted, means you are doing well. To improve your profile, I would consider adding more photo's, as both posted could be improved on. Filled in boxes are fine, but written text for you, does ramble. It could easily be reduced by removing sentences that repeat, so maybe combine the same subjects after editing. It will then flow with ease. The paragraph regarding what you seek in a lady is brief, but covers the main points at the same time highlighting the differences between you and them. TAGS for areas like Wales and the Lake District, might work. Niah
Forgive me for responding to another woman, but I felt the majority of photo's are too similar, and it isn't a good idea to mention about the vehicle, or include a photo of a guy, that can be used as comparison. Read through your written text, which I believe was to much of a wish list, almost as if you want a man to fit into your life without change on your part. The wording could also be reduced improving flow. Send flowers to local males you feel attracted too, and expand the age range.....and join TAGS, especially those that highlight your interests but remember a relationship is based on a compromise....of two. Niah
Good initial start to your profile that covers the important things, though written text is rather restricted. More photo's would help expand the profile, but god start.....and remember to send those flowers....Niah
I must admit anyone who expects other to message them, is reminded by me that it is a two way street. I know you was trying to be original in your written text, but I found it rambled and went no where fast. The section about the lady you seek is rather negative, and some ladies might not respond well to it. Apart from that, a good start and I am sure you will expand as time goes by....and remember, photo's are important, and those you have posted, are very similar, so more variety would be good....Niah
So although you are married and not looking but want to chat and make new friends, you have given only female. Because of your interests I'd focus on TAGS, but be warned that some ladies may not feel right about contacting a man in a relationship, though I agree, better to be honest about it. Niah
My advice is to post a better photo, that is clear and easy to view...not dark and busy. Ladies like to see the face clearly, and a smile looking straight into the camera, without background. The existing photo can be moved to secondary, but try to expand the written text. Best way is to read other male profiles for ideas. But do send flowers to ladies who live close by, and have patience. Niah
Only one favourite and over seven hundred views to your profile, could mean you really are expecting ladies to pursue you. If this is so, maybe it's time you sent flowers to local ladies you are interested in, as you state dating, so it would be easier to meet up with those who live within a hundred miles. On the whole, a good profile, that a few more photo's will enhance, and maybe sharing a paragraph about hobbies you could share, apart from sport, might help. TAGs could help also... Niah.
My initial thoughts bordered confusion, and for someone who likes to read and write, your spelling could do with attention as could punctuation. Spell checks are possible, but you are young and that is how you come over.....so focus on your age group. If writing is causing problems, do as the previous reviewer has advised, add more photo's, but your written text does need expanding. Add tags which link you to others who share your interests, and send flowers to ladies in your area and age, because dating means you want to meet up, not communicate online. You must remain positive, so remove any negative statements from your profile, and to dye hair means darker, bleach hair lightens....so consider that too. Text boxes are all fine, so time to fine tune your profile and take the next step. Niah
I think a good profile, though photos with variety would give a better presentation. Send flowers, especially to ladies who view your profile....to ensure a few favourites.... Niah
Your opening statement makes me wonder if only two messages, why do you feel they are to blame and not you? You have over 5 hundred views to your profile, but no favourites, so maybe you have to develop your social communicating skills and send more messages and flowers. However, reading your written text, you portray yourself as a casual easy going male, but as I continued reading the type of lady you require, I see good looking and smart amongst the list. My advice is to read your profile and few times as well as a few other male profiles, then after thinking on what I've said, think about how you can improve your profile. Adding more photo's would be a good start, and remember dating implies only ladies who live in the same location as you, and again casual, no long term commitment which could be the reason. Niah
A good profile that could be enhanced with more photos, but confusing because of the mention of a lady who would be happy to become legless when out with you and your mates....that certainly made me stop and think..... The comment doesn't sit well with the rest of the profile, and I am sure will raise many question with ladies reading it.... Niah
It has occurred to me, that maybe you have not fully committed to France, reading...'your time here.' That will certainly mean ladies will hold back, for two reasons.... One, you have only given female ages younger than you, which implies not strictly....'friends'....because age does not matter in true platonic friendship, just that you get on well, and of course friends, meaning more than one....implies casual.... Two...Fun time as adults or couple....or family? Many ladies would be wary of a male relocated short term or long term with children, concerned they were filling a gap in your life...Niah
Well I am glad you stated only from France, so you could actually restrict mail to that location and sent flowers to all ladies you find attractive who fit your profile. I think all photo's are too similar, and more variety will work best, but first lets talk about presentation. Is it really necessary to have such a long drawn out intro ahead of the actual profile? Next, read the written text through a few times, and you will find some problems, mainly with flow, but also spelling and grammar. Less is more comes to mind. Stating you have recently separated, does mean a question is asked, if you cope well living without a partner, and some may wonder if you are over the relationship? Never married always rings alarm bells for me, because commitment is the real word, and stating never married, but with children, highlights the fine dividing line, or should I say wording. On the whole a detailed profile that could be edited, to reduce and improve, becoming easier to read. Niah
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RE: Plz remarks
One sentence....which includes rights and obligation of spouse....makes me concerned exactly what you imply? Though I admit to also be confused by the red and white sentence, referring I believe to colour.My advice is to check spelling, but more so the grammar of the statement, so they are easier to understand, avoiding further confusion.
Maybe with an edited profile, it will be easier to understand, though the travel part seems clear, and any lady will understand that part.
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