A good profile, but I found your written text rambled on just a little too long. My advice.....Edit, especially that latter part regarding you, and I believe you have a winner. Add TAGS...for a shortcut way to meet like minded people. Niah
First I would advice you to edit the opening wording, removing any negative thoughts and replace with positive. Do not dwell on what you do not have, though I agree, you must be honest. My thoughts are you wrote the profile on a down moment. That moment is past, so now move forward, and send flowers to as many ladies in your area that you are interested in, not who may be interested in you. Friends....always a good place to start, but you should remove mixed messages that dot the profile.... Good luck.
Well I wonder if you are still looking, and the time lapse could be the high viewer hits to your profile, though you now have 4 favourites. My main concern is the length of your personal written text in the profile. It does ramble to wards the end, and I think an edit might be wise. The part about what you are looking for in a lady, is fine. Dating...implies local to where you live, and that message I felt was hinted throughout, and might be wise to seriously think on that. Photos I felt are fine....Niah
Just another thought to improve again since you have a top age of 45....do a spell check...though it isn't just spelling, it will tidy your written text up........Niah
You stress a mature lady, but 18 is hardly that, though 30 is verging on maturity....just, I think you need to read through your written text and take note. Stating what you enjoy is fine, but maybe state what a lady would share, though you did mention cosy nights in. Sending the image of Jack the Lad is fine, but it could stop some ladies contacting you. More photo's, with a different focus in my opinion will help and if you believe you are sending mixed messages, it's time to change your wording. Niah
Well I think the photos show you have humour, though maybe seeing the work photo might rattle some ladies....but I think the photos are fine. I do think friends/hang-out is restrictive, as it states ladies in the UK, really England and close to where you live/work, allowing you to meet up easily. The text needs to be expanded, but I do believe the photos speak volumes and the wide age range can only work on your favour. Send flowers to ladies you are attracted too, as you need to improve online communication skills, in case you meet someone further afield.....even Ireland...LOL
Well a good profile, but it seems you are seeking someone close-by in Ireland....because of the status...Dating..... You may have been a member of CS awhile by the amount of views you have had to your profile, yet I find with your clearly listed enjoyments/hobbies, you haven't one tag to short track you to the right ladies, though realise they will be worldwide, rather than near Limerick. Look into tags, and also groups, because there might be a lady there who is also local, but I'd expand your dating horizons, because you open with explaining how you met someone online before...and I think you may seek a long-term friend, but cautious, which is understandable. Good luck....
I think I understand what you mean about a woman's right to choose, but others may not, so I believe your profile is a good start, but needs expanding to explain a little more about you and your lifestyle. Photo's okay, but adding a few more will improve the over all appearance..... without a hat, but wearing a big smile..... Niah
Many will believe the profile photos, are more suited to a CV shoot, and that could hold some sincere ladies back from responding. However, if you are the one to send ladies flowers and messages, it wouldn't matter. On the whole not a bad profile, but I believe a few less staged photos, would enhance the over all presentation.... Niah
We hear the advice not to show children on our profile, and still they are included....meaning in photographs. You are looking for friends/hangout, so I believe the child is adding un-necessary confusion. You mention children do not live with you, so its likely, a casual friend will never meet your daughter, only know she exists. If a relationships turns the corner, to becoming serious, that would be time to start to introduce children. Apart from that, a good start, but maybe you are sending mixed messages. Niah
Not a bad profile, but friends/hangout, usually means someone local to you, because meeting is easy. Penpal...however, can mean anywhere in the world, so I believe you must think the status through, and instead of sending mixed messages, a lady will understand your true wishes by reading your profile. Niah
I would not say spelling is the actual problem, more a mixture of text and typo's, but do think it would be wise to correct. A few more photo's would help, but over all, a good profile.... Niah
OK....so we have your word you are 'cute.' I hope it is a local girl you seek, but somehow, I do not believe it is, so maybe you must try a little harder, with a photo so we can judge for ourselves, what 'cute is.' What you enjoy doing, and where you will take this lady when you meet, for a date? I think you need to give your profile more thought, and add some photo's. Niah
I agree with the earlier comment, though I would add a few more varied photos. One thing I was believed by the earlier part of the profile, was you sort a local girl, then realised that was not the case. Maybe you need to stress that in the beginning? Yes, ladies prefer a man to contact them, but if you want them to write to you first, add a message that you'll respond to all messages, and follow through, even if some for a gentle let down. Common sense really. But I wonder if you are considering relocating, or want the lady to do so.... Niah
To sum your profile up......a woman your age or younger, who will look after you, which you stress more than once. It is important that you stress you will being giving equal support to the lady, but I notice that you are looking for marriage, yet it seems you are still not legally divorced, so that will make ladies cautious. Maybe you shouldn't be stating marriage until you are able to do so. Niah
You make it quite clear you are wanting friends no more, and status....friends/hangout, points to those who live within India, yet you seem to want to chat to those around then world too, so that is a form of mixed message. Your text in the fill in boxes is fine, as is written text, so maybe add a few more photos, and send flowers to ladies within India that you would like to meet up with, and message those worldwide you'd enjoy chatting to.... or maybe you should be joining the forums to meet those worldwide contacts....Niah
You are 32, never been married...and imply you are looking for a lady to love, yet simple state status, as FRIENDS/HANGOUT. So I ask, am I right you are sending mixed messages which confuse, as you want no long term commitment? Then of course I could add, friends and hangout, means someone local, certainly not long-term or marriage. I think you seriously need to read through your profile, as it explains to me why 180 ladies have read your profile, but none have become a favourite. Niah
Many ladies I know feel as I do, that side photos mean you lack confidence...but in your case, it was just a blur, so that needs to be addressed ASAP. The profile isn't bad, just add some new photos, and expand the text, but you are on the right track.....though I would turn any photos, up the right way.
I realise the introduction isn't normally on your profile, and that is good, as it is just a ramble, and does nothing to help.
However, the main content of the profile is good, and the photos are not bad either, so that is a plus. Although living on an island, certainly can restrict, I would send a few flowers, and focus on within and closer to Malta, rather than great distances. Patience is important.....just give it some time and gradually expand your area for searching...Niah
Awesome you may be, but until a lady feels confident, I doubt they will chat off CS, as it would reveal too much about them, and reduce their security. Chatting on here is always the better way to start, the reason people join CS, and although I won't say you sound arrogant, I do believe you need to be aware ladies prefer to know who they are chatting too, though they may not push for a few weeks....if you remain on CS. Niah
Not a bad profile, but you will stand more chance of success with a photo or two. I found the long or short-term relationship reference confusing, so might need to think seriously on that....Niah
Really like the comment about a lady who is happy and wants to be happier, but that went downhill when I read the age, and you have a closed mind regarding age. I realise it will be difficult to meet a lady who has to travel, so probably the age is realistic, but it sends the wrong message to the ladies reading the profile. Also be aware that recently separated, means you are in no position to offer marriage yet, and that can cause some ladies to give you a wide berth, until they see the divorce word. A few more photos and expanding your hobbies you hope to share, might be a good idea. Niah
Good profile, but needs in my opinion, more photos. The written text regarding you isn't bad, but I felt rambled when explaining your needs for a lady, so I would suggest you read and edit, with the aim of reducing. Finally before submitting, I would check spelling, but you are on the right track. Niah
Well you asked for it.....friends/hang out means local, so you are really looking for local ladies who are at least 20 years younger. Nothing wrong with that, but the overall message is no commitment, and younger ladies usually want more than a quiet night watching videos. You imply in your opening text...GIRLS....and later slim.....do I need to go on why the profile in my view, sends the wrong mixed messages. Check the ladies in your immediate area using the search form, and send them flowers, but first I would do some rewrites. Niah
Using your full name is in my mind, a huge mistake. Mentioning too much about your former marriage, another mistake. I don't think it should matter about your son being of mixed race, as if a woman accepts you as her partner, the child is part of your family. The way you have mentioned your disability, meaning being deaf, is to be commended, but I truly do not think you can say you have been rejected because of the disability. Next you need to punctuate your written text, which at present is rather confusing. Raising your son alone...with your family, is a contradiction, so I do believe you must reread and edit your written text, which should be in the actual profile, not leading into it. Niah
Mixed messages, because you are hovering....friend/hang-out...then mention the girl your would love.....so should that be dating? Good profile, and remember, those who read your profile have time to absorb, so reread, and try to be truthful, but as Beautifulyou said.....this is no place to disclose your real name.
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RE: Any advice?
A good profile, but I found your written text rambled on just a little too long. My advice.....Edit, especially that latter part regarding you, and I believe you have a winner.Add TAGS...for a shortcut way to meet like minded people.
Niah