The basic profile is okay but without a profile photo, your Mail will be reduced. At 21, I am sure it is not because you are unable to post a photo, so ladies will ask why..... You can rectify that quickly, and I would advice you to remove your Skype contact details, later sending personal contact details to those selected ladies, who first make contact through CS. They will more likely be the sincere ones.
Not a bad new profile, but needs expansion on written text, and a few more photos. One without the hat would help, and a smile wouldn't go amiss. Any pen-pal means you will be online chatting, so not strictly outside in the open. If you want to meet ladies, then local to your location is one option, so focus on that when you expand your text and photos..... But on the right track.....
You are new, but I would seriously consider changing the only photo you have, and adding a few more.... Do a spell check, and expand the written text, though the boxed text seems fine....
I think your profile is refreshing and honest, and with a favourite already, I imagine you will soon be a popular man on here. The photos are good, text good, so nothing to hold you back, just one piece of advice..... We can't tell the frame of mind the person we chat to online is in, and all have good and bad days. I have a feeling you tease, and it could back fire on a bad day....so be aware of that. I wish you luck...but I don't think you need it.
I think a well thought through profile, that is compact and to the point, but I think you still need photos, especially one of yourself, instead of hiding behind a waterfall. But a great start and can only improve....niah
Well...I think you have gone overboard...marketing yourself, and some ladies will be impressed, but I believe the majority won't even reach the end of the 'novel'.... If the photo shows the real you...fine, but if it is the image you want to portray, than it falls short. I am saying be yourself, and I don't feel the profile actually portrays you the person. Photo's are varied, and that is good, but seem to focus more on head and shoulders... My advice is to reread and edit the written text, and expand the area, since you state a 100 miles of your location. Niah
I will always mention photos that are presented side-ways, and usually just one or two, but all yours are side-ways, and in my opinion, need turning to right way up.
The text in the drop boxes is good, but the personal written text has no correct punctuation, and is therefore very confusing. Take time to reread, and work on the presentation and written flow. A spell-check would also be wise too. Niah
A profile photo is really important, and yours is not clear or good in portraying you. It is dark with a busy background and presentation is important for anyone hoping to break into the entertainment industry, so that must be your first consideration. Have you made a mistake with height, as in one group photo you are surrounded by others the same height, so best check you have your height listed correctly. English is obviously not your first language, but for many who read your profile, it will be, so necessary to check spelling and grammar. Communications skills I think need some work, and look at Tags, as the wording seems rather confusing. Hope these comments help. Niah
An after thought...31 is still youngish...yes, but maturity should have started to ease in, and a lady, especially with children, will not want a Jack the Lad. Looking at the profile photo's, this is how you portray yourself, with dating, not long-term, and hinting you like drinking, will turn a lady away, especially if she has experienced this side of a man, and wants a more stable...long-term relationship. Replace the cake photo's with a more active side of you.....and try to show a more mature side....unless you really like the night club scene, with younger ladies....
over a thousand have viewed your profile, and not having one favourite, says you are not working hard enough on social/communication skills, so first deal with that. Sent flowers, ecards etc, and look at TAGS, for a person who shares your interests....
I agree with the spell check, and although young people overlook the..... txt msg abb.,...sadly it changes as we get older. You have 4 favourites, so are doing fine, but understand you would like more friends. My advice is to use TAGS...to seek those who share your interests, and focus on an area that is easy to travel too, for dating. Send flowers and ecards...wait for the responses, as you do not need to wait online, and send as many as you can, but use those TAGS. The profile apart from the cross over between text messaging and normal text, is a turn off, but the overall profile, is fine......Niah
You do have a variety of photo's, but most are head and shoulders, so maybe add a few more for balance. An 18-23 year old female, would be struggling to already hold such high positions in her career, and what you are looking for....truthfully needs to be reviewed. For an older woman, yes possible, but your wishes seem to be closer to day-dreams than reality. The outcome at present will scare many ladies away, so I would seriously, edit, with the focus on reality. Niah
It comes across as a good profile, but you have no favourites.... Since you enjoy outside activity, use tags, to research ladies who enjoy the same, and send them flowers, especially if they live within travelling distance...meaning for dating. Hope you have so success soon...Niah
To ask if you look bad or a sweet person, is a difficult question to answer....why, because all have different thought that cause them to reach a decision. You are looking for friends/hang out, so a casual friendship. As long as you are being truthful to yourself as well as those you hope to meet, that is fine. From that angle, a good profile. Niah
I thought the photos were rather busy, but on second thought, decided the variety works to show you, the person. However the text needs to be reread, and edited. Nothing serious, but it doesn't flow, and at times, becomes difficult to read, though I understand English is not your first language. Lack of favourites, did point to a communication break-down, so send cards and flowers, to those ladies you find interesting. Niah
The photo's are all basically the same, meaning background and colour, so variety would help lighten the impact. I also found the mixture of colours busy, though could improve by cropping surrounds. Written text runs into each other, without punctuation, which would certainly improve the presentation. Text in boxes fine....Niah
I recall reviewing this profile before, and without checking, I cannot say it hasn't changed, but I remember the hits to the profile being high, with an un-balanced number of favourites....
Best changed weather for whether, if you are a real geek....and although what you say about yourself I do not doubt, it could be a bit of a ramble for most young ladies below the age of 26. Young ladies would not want to be termed 'mates,' as in male friends, so try to mention in what you are looking for, a little more female focused to make them feel important in bringing balance......even if it isn't necessary. With over two hundred views, you are being noticed....and have to add....the first three words in the opening statement, are not necessary......Niah
Conceited.....and unusual choice of words for a dating site, when we can only go by what the person writes about themselves. I really refer more to the age of you give....hopefully to find a lady. Add to the fact you have choses handsome, as part of your profile name, and I would think, conceited could be appropriate. The photo chosen is acceptable, not great, and the profile enhanced by a few more photos, would allow the ladies to make an all round decision. But saying all that, not a bad profile....Niah
There are two kinds of ladies who might be attracted...one because they need to share any limelight, or one who cares and shares life with you and your girls. But they must feel equal. I think you need to understand a woman needs something in her life, as well as you and your needs, so focus on that angle and explain what else you have time for in your life....with her... The profile photo in my mind is too busy, as you need thought for a more balanced lifestyle. It takes a special person to cope with a partners focused lifestyle....Niah
I have never seen a profile from a 'writer,' with such few words..... That would make me question that statement, but on the whole, the photos that are supposed to portray the you in your best light, actually do no such thing. I feel you'd be wise to treat this first profile as a trial run, and start again. So to answer your question...in my personal view, no, it is not okay....Niah
Three things strike me as pointers to improve.... Age....you are certainly focused on younger women. The numbers of hits to your viewer, are not reflected in your favourites. Capital letters, flaming isn't necessary, and shouldn't change from small caption to large to make a point. I have to agree, maybe you think that all ladies are the same as those living locally to you now....and outside ladies, may not wish to live in your home country...so maybe you must focus locally, but I would expand ages for ladies, and smile in that profile picture...really important. Niah...
You may not realise you have restricted yourself by stating dating. Why, because that means the lady should live close to your location, and the rest of the profile is very flexible. So try to consider long term...because once past 30, most would have that direction, unless unable to commit. Apart from that...great profile but travel great distance for a date.......
Your main focus for a lady.... must be your age or younger. I think that needs to be addressed, as I believe that is very restricting. You do come over with very clear views which is fine, but again, you are restricting the outcome, as if building walls.... Rather a lot of views to your profile, so that is positive, but only one favourite, does mean communication could be a problem.
Poetry might be a good place to build friendships, so seek tags, and expand on them, with those who share your beliefs and enjoyments....helping you to meet the right lady.....Niah
Well I can't agree about the photo, or lack of it, as for a year I was a blank face and still had contacts, as so have you with over a thousand hits to your profile. But only one favourite, warns something is wrong, and I would imagine that ladies take one look and see a one sided approach. At 39, you give age for ladies as 18-40, and if I recall you are Scorpio, then you are closer to 40 anyway. Educated ladies too....I think you need to think clearly and start again...most would imagine it would be one sided and risky after reading the profile, as I thought on first glance. Niah
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RE: wat u ladies think
The profile looks okay, but I can never understand posting photo's upside-down or side-ways.So u
Unless you post photo's right way up....I won't see any improvement, however good it appears.
Kathy