Viewed over 3000 times, and yet only one favourite. Maybe it's because although I found the text boxes well balanced with information, when I reached what you expect in a lady, it seemed like a shopping list. The photos of you are acceptable and not a bad profile...but that unbalance in what you expect of a woman, I think is not reasonable....we all have to compromise.... Also I would expect some mention of what you and your lady will share, together..... Niah
I think attracting a wider age group is possible, but communication afterwards, can be difficult. Why, because they might have more life skills/experiences, so consider this. I see you as a young man, so dating is fine, but expand your text, giving a clue to how you would spend time together. Photo's speak louder than words, and I think you are attracting views, but lack of communication afterwards, means they lose interest. Do you respond to all those who have viewed you? Flowers are a quick easy answer but since you like fitness, try tags also to souce ladies who share the same interests... Niah
Since when has 35 been an old lady....? You may ask why I ask that question, but you yourself wrote the top age as 35, yet commented you wanted to meet and settle down with a young or old lady..... Now be warned, whatever age a lady is, old lady will not be acceptable. Re read your text, and use a spell check, as some spellings are seriously confusing. The photo is far too busy, meaning background shapes that do not lead the eyes straight to the subject....you, and the photo is misty. Take a new one with just your face and a smile, and gradually perfect the profile as you get used to what is needed. Niah
Since when has 35 been an old lady....? You may ask why I ask that question, but you yourself wrote the top age as 35, yet commented you wanted to meet and settle down with a young or old lady..... Now be warned, whatever age a lady is, old lady will not be acceptable. Re read your text, and use a spell check, as some spellings are seriously confusing. The photo is far too busy, meaning background shapes that do not lead the eyes straight to the subject....you, and the photo is misty. Take a new one with just your face and a smile, and gradually perfect the profile as you get used to what is needed. Niah
Expand the image of the profile by adding a variety of photos, and the read the text carefully. You need to correct the presentation, by using capitals in the right places, and even joining sentences together, so you do not repeat yourself... But a good profile for someone new to CS. Niah
well I have no idea why a flower cannot get through, as others have, but I do not understand your comment regarding Saudi Arabia....your location it is clearly stated as Saudi Arabia.....
If I am right and you call a 30+ lady chick, you may be in for a few surprises. The photos I feel let you down badly, and all need to be replaced. Dark, and uninteresting. I think the profile is heading in the right direction, just needs more impact...Niah
I agree....it rambles, and if you reread it a few times, you will see what should be reduced, without losing the important information. Though I must say, most is about YOU, not the lady you are seeking. Age for the lady ....I feel could be expanded, seeing you seem settled and mature, add a few years. You might be happily surprised. Niah
I have to agree, I usually go past any profile that has photos posted upside down and sideways.... You seem to feel the lady need to contact you...wrong. Have a look at the lower boxes with text on your profile. They are confusing...and a spell check would help.. A little extra work, you really could have a good profile. Niah
How about changing some of your photos, as some do you no favours. Sure, some ladies prefer taller men, but you can blame your height, or try to improve what you have and some ladies are short. We all have good and bad points, we must learn to develop and improve the weak ones. Niah
Oh you are so wrong believing that you can enter a country if you intend to marry a woman there. WRONG....govt are careful to protect their citizens and country, by not allowing those without work/language skills into their country. Do not think what applies in your country, is acceptable in all countries. The only way to earn respect, is to achieve your goals yourself, so best rewrite your profile, looking for friends to email, to develop language and writing skills, which you will need to enter any country with your hard earned money. Niah
Good profile, and the genuine man does come through. My main focus has to be on the photos....they are okay, but lack variety, meaning different situations and full length is missing. Read through your written text, just a couple of minor mistakes in text, but nothing really bad...... Niah
Well the world is your oyster, for email-penpal, though most ladies would prefer it was on here on CS at first, so don't push for personal contact info...until you have chatted awhile. Why wait for anyone to contact you? Instead.... if you see someone you feel is interesting, send them a flower or a msg, and open communications. And since it is not meeting.....not looks but conversation skills are the most important.....Niah
Well it's a good profile, and is is your profile, but I saw it a little one sided. Meaning the lady will fit into your lifestyle, and that could mean a few bumps in any relationship. I hope it would be a joining of friends as equal with balanced give and take, so maybe you should expand that part. Niah
Well...you are not humble, and I think that may be the problem. You even open your profile with how handsome you are and scaring ladies away. A profile is about you, but I felt yours was overpoweringly so. Everything else is fine, though I felt the photos, too similar, and lack variety. Niah
I found your photos more like mug shots, and should be changed to more variety photos. The profile text rambles, and could do with an edit, but a good start. Niah
Always confused when I see dating linked with the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, even though you did point out it was for ladies local to your area only. Dating means sharing time together, so I feel you need to expand on what your interests are, as it is easier when two people share common ground. But what I have learnt, in most areas, restrictions are in place. However, it would be easier for you to look at SEARCH, for ladies in the area, and to send flowers as a way to speed up communications and a few more photos might be wise also. Niah
Your profile needs expanding....more text...instead of FUN....to prove you have a personality and know what you are looking for. More photos, and define fun....we all enjoy different things, whether parties, night clubs, walks on beach/park....you need to raise interest....
I know you see the toys as a extention of you...what makes you tic....but truthfully, I think it turns ladies away....Men are from Mars, Ladies from Venus....we do not think alike.... I recall I tried to point this out before....Niah
Well you may not be good at taking photos, but you got that far, so why can't it be up the right way? You are new, so try to add a few more photos, and the next time, SMILE. You need to check your spelling. But over all, short and to the point, though I did feel you need to expand on your hobbies, other than cooking....that you would share with the lady. Or she may feel, you have a single focus.....in life. Niah
I think your text on the smile these rambled too much. I would add more photos, and send flower to ladies that make you smile....don't wait for them to contact you.....Niah
Seems you want to skip out of the period of getting to know someone, which cannot help a relationship...making it stronger over time.... Although the profile is brief, to the point and direct, I did feel the lady you seek should be willing to adapt to your needs....rather than being her own person first. You may scare a good lady away.....as some ladies seek a career in their own right before settling down. Niah
Well you have rather restricted yourself, with local ladies within a tight age range. You may need to revise that later, but check all ladies that are local and the correct age..or maybe widen the age range.....send all a flower and see what response you get. Not a bad profile, and I see you are new, just wondering is it wise to be so restrictive.... Niah
You have confused me.....and probably other CS ladies....
You are looking for marriage...... Yet you are in a relationship, have children...and maybe are the kid pics on your profile....so eaither you have made a language error, or you are seeking a second wife....? Niah
I think you need to edit, and usually by linking sentences, you can reduce without losing any information. As is, I feel some will get lost and give up, but I did feel at times, you have a shopping list for the lady, and we all know, if that spark is there.... wants fly out the window. Photo good, text well written, just rambles a little.... Niah
Well I think it would be wise to crop the profile photo, losing the background colour. Your profile is that of a young man, but you are... and looking for a young lady the same age. Gradually you will fine tune the text as necessary, but a good place to start. Niah
You certainly need help with spelling, so a check would be wise before you submit a new profile, but with 'In a Relationship,' does mean many ladies will give you a wide berth, as women tend to feel you are not free, so will not contact you..... even for dating. Without a photo, you already restricted your options greatly.
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RE: Am I Okay here? Help me out please!!!
Viewed over 3000 times, and yet only one favourite.Maybe it's because although I found the text boxes well balanced with information, when I reached what you expect in a lady, it seemed like a shopping list.
The photos of you are acceptable and not a bad profile...but that unbalance in what you expect of a woman, I think is not reasonable....we all have to compromise....
Also I would expect some mention of what you and your lady will share, together.....
Niah