You are part of the 25% of the population who are introverts. You recharge when you get down time away from others. Well developed introverts can deal with the external world and all those extroverts successfully but draw strength from their inner thoughts and processes. You process ideas by thinking first, speaking last. You have a limited number of friendships but those you do have are deep. The same applies to your hobbies. You'd be more comfortable attempting to understand others than trying to change them.