mike69spain: First time around there was BAM, but we are talking years back.
She is the same. I did not find a new love, I found my old still wating patiently. I never thought she would do that, but she did.
Thats not how it came down, but still, we are one since a long time, but with a break in the middle made by choice of other reasons than feelings.
Love don't die, but it can stop breathing for a short while
WOW...that's so weird cause the exact same thing happened to me too...I got back with the love of my life too...from over a year ago...Funny how that love stuff just hangs around waiting for changes...resolutions and for each person to realize they belong with each other.....
Hugz_n_Kissez: WOW...that's so weird cause the exact same thing happened to me too...I got back with the love of my life too...from over a year ago...Funny how that love stuff just hangs around waiting for changes...resolutions and for each person to realize they belong with each other.....
I think, if the break up was not related to feelings, something will be stronger when back together.
I did the break up, because I was ruining us both, financially and from that, of strength.
Breaking up would set her on her path again of career, friends and future and me to go completely into making a come back as a normal working person.
That was three years back.
Well, she did, and I did. But neither of us got into any new relation, we kept in touch, since it was her advice and cool sense of right that I fell for in the first place and I did not want to loose that part. But we live 3500 km apart so meeting up was not happening.
You are right, we need to be pushed around a bit and then we get the message.
mike69spain: I think, if the break up was not related to feelings, something will be stronger when back together.
I did the break up, because I was ruining us both, financially and from that, of strength.
Breaking up would set her on her path again of career, friends and future and me to go completely into making a come back as a normal working person.
That was three years back.
Well, she did, and I did. But neither of us got into any new relation, we kept in touch, since it was her advice and cool sense of right that I fell for in the first place and I did not want to loose that part. But we live 3500 km apart so meeting up was not happening.
You are right, we need to be pushed around a bit and then we get the message.
Yes I agree...the bond is definitely strengthened when the feelings haven't been lost in the first place...but other things get in the way....Well I'm certainly thankful to have been pushed around and to have finally got the message....
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First time around there was BAM, but we are talking years back.
She is the same. I did not find a new love, I found my old still wating patiently. I never thought she would do that, but she did.
Thats not how it came down, but still, we are one since a long time, but with a break in the middle made by choice of other reasons than feelings.
Love don't die, but it can stop breathing for a short while