Thinking out loud (45)
thank you for sharing and yes there are some loving genuine people out there......take care and love to you too
sultryash: thank you for sharing and yes there are some loving genuine people out there......take care and love to you too
Hi Ash,
Thank you....I posted this in the wrong area....I have placed it in the dating and relating area now.....
stefonline: Hi Ash,
Thank you....I posted this in the wrong area....I have placed it in the dating and relating area now.....
Thank you....I posted this in the wrong area....I have placed it in the dating and relating area now.....
ok
stefonline: Last year around March I came upon a thread on cs, which one dose not matter and I decide to post as it was something I could relate to. The person who started this thread who's name dose not matter either as none of you would know him and it's not relevent anyhow.
Turned out to be one of the nicest, caring, generous, mindful, thoughtful, considerate people I have to come to know in my entire lifetime. This friendship started out as nothing more than a bit of banter to his thread. He has been true to his word from day 1 and has sent me some of the most incredible things you could imagine. His generosity goes beyond thinking.
Pictures were exchanged and stories were shared....
We got to know one another across the miles of Ocean....he is almost like a father figure to me...
Today was sad for me as I had to say goodbye to him...
But what I am really trying to say is that there are some lovely decent geneuine people out there.....
So keep your door open guys you may never know who ccmes knocking...Love to you all....
Turned out to be one of the nicest, caring, generous, mindful, thoughtful, considerate people I have to come to know in my entire lifetime. This friendship started out as nothing more than a bit of banter to his thread. He has been true to his word from day 1 and has sent me some of the most incredible things you could imagine. His generosity goes beyond thinking.
Pictures were exchanged and stories were shared....
We got to know one another across the miles of Ocean....he is almost like a father figure to me...
Today was sad for me as I had to say goodbye to him...
But what I am really trying to say is that there are some lovely decent geneuine people out there.....
So keep your door open guys you may never know who ccmes knocking...Love to you all....
Why did you say goodbyee to him?
stefonline: Last year around March I came upon a thread on cs, which one dose not matter and I decide to post as it was something I could relate to. The person who started this thread who's name dose not matter either as none of you would know him and it's not relevent anyhow.
Turned out to be one of the nicest, caring, generous, mindful, thoughtful, considerate people I have to come to know in my entire lifetime. This friendship started out as nothing more than a bit of banter to his thread. He has been true to his word from day 1 and has sent me some of the most incredible things you could imagine. His generosity goes beyond thinking.
Pictures were exchanged and stories were shared....
We got to know one another across the miles of Ocean....he is almost like a father figure to me...
Today was sad for me as I had to say goodbye to him...
But what I am really trying to say is that there are some lovely decent geneuine people out there.....
So keep your door open guys you may never know who ccmes knocking...Love to you all....
Turned out to be one of the nicest, caring, generous, mindful, thoughtful, considerate people I have to come to know in my entire lifetime. This friendship started out as nothing more than a bit of banter to his thread. He has been true to his word from day 1 and has sent me some of the most incredible things you could imagine. His generosity goes beyond thinking.
Pictures were exchanged and stories were shared....
We got to know one another across the miles of Ocean....he is almost like a father figure to me...
Today was sad for me as I had to say goodbye to him...
But what I am really trying to say is that there are some lovely decent geneuine people out there.....
So keep your door open guys you may never know who ccmes knocking...Love to you all....
Thankyou for sharing this Stef it was the most touching thread I have read in a while
Nice share Stef! Sorry that you had to say goodbye though....
Hope you have a good weekend, in spite of my friend.
Hope you have a good weekend, in spite of my friend.
pirate151: Why did you say goodbyee to him?
Well the fact that he is married would be the major thing....
The other thing is that I wouldn't want him ever to get into trouble with his wife....
The facts remain is that he is a wonderful decent Man....never once asking me for anything in return, never expecting anything from me....just someone who was there who was willing to communicate on a one to one level....
hopefloats: Nice share Stef! Sorry that you had to say goodbye though.... Hope you have a good weekend, in spite of my friend.
Was my choice to say goodbye Hope.....He hasn't read the letter yet that I wrote him.....
steve6610: Thankyou for sharing this Stef it was the most touching thread I have read in a while
Thanks Steve....I think he will be very sad also when he reads my letter....
stefonline: Well the fact that he is married would be the major thing....
The other thing is that I wouldn't want him ever to get into trouble with his wife....
The facts remain is that he is a wonderful decent Man....never once asking me for anything in return, never expecting anything from me....just someone who was there who was willing to communicate on a one to one level....
The other thing is that I wouldn't want him ever to get into trouble with his wife....
The facts remain is that he is a wonderful decent Man....never once asking me for anything in return, never expecting anything from me....just someone who was there who was willing to communicate on a one to one level....
that's the decent and moral thing to do ......i commend you for having the human decency to act in the manner you did. He will always hold you dear to his heart and you will always have the warmth of having a true friend and the memories, sometimes some people only pass through our lives for a short time but they leave an indelible impression on us and its a great feeling.
sultryash: that's the decent and moral thing to do ......i commend you for having the human decency to act in the manner you did. He will always hold you dear to his heart and you will always have the warmth of having a true friend and the memories, sometimes some people only pass through our lives for a short time but they leave an indelible impression on us and its a great feeling.
For sure Ash.....it's not every day these type of people pass by your door....I will be forever grateful for having the oppertunity for our paths to have crossed....I dont know what he will say when he reads my letter.....
stefonline: For sure Ash.....it's not every day these type of people pass by your door....I will be forever grateful for having the oppertunity for our paths to have crossed....I dont know what he will say when he reads my letter.....
he will understand and accept your decision, might not be easy for him but if he cares about you and respects your friendship he will do whats best for both of you. Don't worry things will work out as they are suppose to.
stefonline: Was my choice to say goodbye Hope.....He hasn't read the letter yet that I wrote him.....
And probably wise, if his wife wasn't aware...
stefonline: Well the fact that he is married would be the major thing....
The other thing is that I wouldn't want him ever to get into trouble with his wife....
The facts remain is that he is a wonderful decent Man....never once asking me for anything in return, never expecting anything from me....just someone who was there who was willing to communicate on a one to one level....
The other thing is that I wouldn't want him ever to get into trouble with his wife....
The facts remain is that he is a wonderful decent Man....never once asking me for anything in return, never expecting anything from me....just someone who was there who was willing to communicate on a one to one level....
Why can't you keep in contact, just as friends? Someone that special should not be lost forever....
thanks stef for putting up an encouraging thread sorry you feel you cant communicate with him anymore.
SensualVixen: Why can't you keep in contact, just as friends? Someone that special should not be lost forever....
Hi Vix....
In the ideal world yes but things are never as simple as that....or else I am just complicating the fact....Truth is he is a "Man" and is human and possibly as some stage it could have gotten mixed up.....someone always gets hurt out of things like this...his wife, him or Me.....
It would have been nice to think I could have held on to him forever from a distance....he is like my guardian angel in disguise....So so lovely.....
Thank's Vix I appreciate you taking the time to put forward your input....
Dawn7z: thanks stef for putting up an encouraging thread sorry you feel you cant communicate with him anymore.
Hi Dawn,
I wish to encourage all on here and believe that there are some good and decent people out there...I can spot the ones from here you all know who you are....
you are like beacons of light and never never let someone put out your flame....hopefloats: And probably wise, if his wife wasn't aware...
Well that's where I was coming from Hope....I have been the other woman on the other slide of the scale so I know what it is like to walk in the shoes....I wouldn't want to hurt another woman like that...she is one of my own kind and I have the utmost respect for women....
In response to: Last year around March I came upon a thread on cs, which one dose not matter and I decide to post as it was something I could relate to. The person who started this thread who's name dose not matter either as none of you would know him and it's not relevent anyhow.
Turned out to be one of the nicest, caring, generous, mindful, thoughtful, considerate people I have to come to know in my entire lifetime. This friendship started out as nothing more than a bit of banter to his thread. He has been true to his word from day 1 and has sent me some of the most incredible things you could imagine. His generosity goes beyond thinking.
Pictures were exchanged and stories were shared....
We got to know one another across the miles of Ocean....he is almost like a father figure to me...
Today was sad for me as I had to say goodbye to him...
But what I am really trying to say is that there are some lovely decent geneuine people out there.....
So keep your door open guys you may never know who ccmes knocking...Love to you all....
Turned out to be one of the nicest, caring, generous, mindful, thoughtful, considerate people I have to come to know in my entire lifetime. This friendship started out as nothing more than a bit of banter to his thread. He has been true to his word from day 1 and has sent me some of the most incredible things you could imagine. His generosity goes beyond thinking.
Pictures were exchanged and stories were shared....
We got to know one another across the miles of Ocean....he is almost like a father figure to me...
Today was sad for me as I had to say goodbye to him...
But what I am really trying to say is that there are some lovely decent geneuine people out there.....
So keep your door open guys you may never know who ccmes knocking...Love to you all....
If there's really nothing going on other than friendship why break it off?
I have alot of male friends who have Imore trust in than I do any of my female friends and wouldn't end those male friendships for anything in the world.
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Turned out to be one of the nicest, caring, generous, mindful, thoughtful, considerate people I have to come to know in my entire lifetime. This friendship started out as nothing more than a bit of banter to his thread. He has been true to his word from day 1 and has sent me some of the most incredible things you could imagine. His generosity goes beyond thinking.
Pictures were exchanged and stories were shared....
We got to know one another across the miles of Ocean....he is almost like a father figure to me...
Today was sad for me as I had to say goodbye to him...
But what I am really trying to say is that there are some lovely decent geneuine people out there.....
So keep your door open guys you may never know who ccmes knocking...
Love to you all....