but you certainly had no grounds to dress me down or suggest i did anything inappropriate or catty
ive gotten more letters apologizing for your response than you might imagine
nice to know im not nuts or perceived by all as such a witch and good to remember that acting like that and then saying something like 'no offense' is pure hogwash
i didnt think staying in the same hotel was mandatory my mistake i suppose and i really wouldnt want to be where every minute is planned anyway i shoulda read more here i guess sometimes that happens tho...
Hey now giiiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllllllll
You are going....I'm sorry...I have the mojitos ready and all....
I'm sure Lynn didnt mean to offend you, you just need to talk it over, and no, there's no rule on staying on the same hotel, but as many of us have said, it would be nice.
We are still looking for options, so if ur option is fine, we shall see to it.
Calm down hermana, you're well loved, you know that...
eri you know i care about you sooo much but your command of english is sometimes naive
it was rude and was copy pasted here-i was sent the exact same email-so thats not in the rules i think..?
ive never been anything but polite and friendly to this OP and it is common for people to stay different places at a meet
what if i stayed at dads house (as a friend) ? would we then be ostracised? ts just sophomoric and controlling, such an attitude, as i am experiencing it
its not rocket science doing a meet-tho a nice effort for sure
i wasnt trying to undermine anything or anyone nor were a dozen other people in the thread who offered suggestions- yet i was the only one that got such a lengthy and scolding response- a choice was made to portray me in a certain light im tired of that nonsense and if i misunderstood then so did a number of people who wrote me apologizing for my being treated rudely-
also as i have become aware of how many 'friends' of ppl that have physically threatened me will be at this gathering. because of that i became uninterested in attending- which is a bummer since its so close and some people i care about will be there
im not a fan of drama nor needing to enact any further legal action so the good choice for me is to stay away
understanding the sentiments posted to me only sealed it- id already decided not to attend so no biggie.
dont think i need to speak on the subject any further except to request that this OP not post emails on forums and not to expect an email response...
Ok people.....this is a get together, everyone is welcome, this is the get together thread, any positive suggestions are welcome, others please go elsewhere.
I will not get in the middle of things, we are here TO HAVE FUN, and we're going to St Louis to do the same...call me naive...but I do believe in Peace and having a good time.
We are not obliged to go or to stay at the same hotel, if ANY of you have suggestions, give them to Lynn, as she's the one in charge of this, as Oslo is in charge of the Dublin thingy, so, with respect we can all get along.
Now let's get ready to PARTYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.....
no biggie i was a dork and didnt capture the post i was responding to which was top page 11
as i said i am not trying to make anything negative BEB there is a bit of backstory here that some newer people arent aware of and some newer people are fully aware of
honestly i didnt mean to put a damper on any of it for anyone i came in to participate and made a suggestion as many others did
oh well
my safety is in question and apparently my good time so i have no problem not going and thinking about it now ill prolly still be recovering from my next surgery and not able to drive anyway
everything works out for the best and i truly dont feel that relationships i have here will be diminished because i dont attend but if so thats ok too
i work at keeping this stuff in proportion and now you missies made me post again when i said i was finished-
beb you know i think you are a dear i hope
i have to do some stuff in r/l now so dont think im signing out cuz im upset im generally honest to a fault ive no hidden meanings i just gotta split for now-
So glad you are being a grown up about this....since you really don't know what is going on...I posted the comment that was emailed to you here first...just to make sure you got it...I copied and pasted it in the email I sent you...
I have been working on this with no help for other local members...I had asked several of you about this once before and got no response...from you included Mindfful...if you want to cause problems I respectfully ask you to start a different thread about it...There are those that are just fine with the way things are going...
I have also sent an email to the MODS about this as well...as was advised by multipul members....this event is for people to have fun...not for trouble to be stirred....if you disagree with something....you don't have to attend..every minute of the Meet is not planned either...you shoule really read over things again...
Have a great day... I guess we will just agree to disagree
eri it was made clear suggestions are not welcome regarding hotels and no one is in charge of anything people coordinate these things and its nice but not that hard...
no one needs to get in the middle of anything im not even going and thats so i wont be caught in the middle of anything w/ certain people that are no longer members here and have openly threatened myself and a few others at CS
if you ask me you all are making it more dramatic im not going so no drama in fact i think ill have red over for a sleep over and i bet our pics will be more interesting
i didnt intend to be dramatic at all i only respond to what was emailed to me and then posted to me in this thread...i am allowed to respond
and i was clear in my intention to not attend-why is that drama?
i dont need to be here to create drama it happens plenty on its own i get tired of being accused of it
This wasn't only for you, if u 2 have issues way back u should talk it over somewhere else, thats what I think, not here.
I dont know if Lynn asked u to help her or not, but I do know she has been planning this for all of us to have fun.
Of course, ANY suggestions are welcome, as I did post before, from you or anybody else, Lynn is not the president, we ALL have to decide over this, specially the ones that are going. But then again, I dont see anybody really helping her out, people that live in the area.
You know I love you well, and THIS is exactly what I didnt want, and of course I want you there, so it should be great if u guys just let it go....
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