so many men just have no idea when it comes to what makes woman tick. while this list may be obvious to some men, maybe others can learn something from it.
1
never take her for granted
just because she fell in love with you, does not mean she will put up with you neglecting her. people do change but as a couple you need to be able to change and grow together
2
keep the romance
just because you have been together x amount of years does not mean things should become predictable and boring, a relationship that is comfortable does not have to be predictable and boring
3
keep giving her little suprises (to show you care)
sometimes gestures mean more than words, sometimes those three little words may not be enough. she wants to see that you love her by you showing how well you know her.
4
spend quality time together on a regular basis
dont let the everyday stresses and routine get to you, always find time for togetherness and doing the things together you both enjoy
5
show her affection
dont just cuddle and kiss her as a lead up to bedtime
6
when you have mates over, include her in the conversation
and when she is not a part of the conversation, make eye contact and smile at her once in a while
7
dont tell her what to do
ask her opinion, discuss things and comprimise when needed
8
dont keep her guessing about your feelings
woman do not like the strong silent type, we want you to tell us what you are thinking and feeling, so we can understand what in particular makes you tick and also so we are not left wondering where we stand with you
9
support her
be there for her in both good times and bad, listern to what she has to say.
10
dont close yourself off from her emotionally
if you get hurt and angry express your feelings, if you are feeling something you need to tell her. it may hurt her a bit in the short term, but at least it gives you a chance to maybe move on from it, rather than letting things build
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Great list. Now to the "easy" part, finding a man who will do all that
GOOD COMMENTS.....
...NEVER SAY HER HOW MUCH U LOVED...
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But women must remember the age old adage "Growing old happens, growing up is optional." Some of us change, some of us are not eager to change. And if that one hairstyle has suited me for the last 40 years (since my father stopped having total control), then why can't I keep it longish the way I like it? At least I have enough up top (at the moment) to be proud of, and not just the ponytail below the glorious sun-panel And the beard! I like it, my mother loved it, my daughter hates it, but it stays until I want to shave it off.
Us men live by 2 rules:
Rule 1 She is always right
Rule 2 When she is wrong, she is still right.
We may not agree but who is silly enough to argue against those rules?
We men need to know we are loved to and by that i mean we need to be shown affection to and not just reminded that we keep the house clean we watch the kids and all that shit.
Hay guys if she dont work then tell her to get a part time job as well and then u will help in side the house as well .
You r totally right....thanks and keep the good stuff.
but, what about to get her attention?(the traditional,"The first sight")
I would like to get through fom your point of view
It really comes down to COMUNICATION ...And Romance...