Do you make these 10 mistakes in a conversation:by,Henrik Edberg

These are 10 things on what not to do when chatting with people.
1

Not listening

Learn to listen to what people actually are saying.Don't just wait eagerly for your turn to talk.
2

Asking to many questions

Don't make them feel like its an interrogation
3

Tighting up

That awkward silence,coming from being nervous or not knowing exactly why
4

poor delivery

Its not what you say,but how you say it
5

hogging the spot light

Everyone involved in a conversation should get a turn,don't interrupt,hijack their story.Find a balance between listening and talking.
6

having to be right

avoid arguing and having to be right about every topic.
7

talking about a weird or negative topic

Example:talking about bad health,or how your ex's did you wrong
8

being boring

Be prepared to drop a subject when you see people losing interest(.focus on the positive stuff,don't whine,show genuine interest)
9

not reciprocating

Open up and say what you think and share how you feel
10

not contributing much

You might feel that you don't have much to contribute to a conversation,but try anyway...really listen,be interested,ask questions
I think all of us has been guilty of a few of these at times.

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