How not to turn off a woman

Advice for men who want a serious relationship
1

Don't tell big words if u don't mean them!

Even mature/experienced women tend to believe when you tell them they are your only love and the woman of your dream. And they will expect for you to prove it!
2

Don't share details about your previous relationships even if she asks you to!

She will feel like being compared to your previous girlfriends. And those details could reveal some of your disadvantages...
3

Don't stimulate her to share about her previous relationships!

Most of the women like to do it... So don't allow to be compared with others! And commenting these men show you're jealous or weak.
4

Don't ignore her family/children!

Especially when the woman has children you have to show some interest. Otherwise it looks like you aren't serious about her.
5

Don't talk about money!

A great turn off! You will look either stingy or a boaster.
6

Don't be romantic in a fake, cheesy way!

Usually men don't have imagination to invent romantic gestures... They simply follow some boring stereotypes. If you aren't spontaneously romantic, just be kind and sincere!
7

Don't talk about yourself all the time!

All the books with "rules" advice women to be good listeners. But don't forget they also long to be listened to!
8

Don't criticize her looks!

Sometimes even a compliment or an "innocent" comment can be catastrophe! So at least in the beginning, avoid too detailed comments.
9

Don't forget to hug her, to touch her, to kiss her, to hold her hand!

These little (sweet and kind, not vulgar) gestures are of a great importance for women. They are insatiable of them!
10

Don't forget to be kind and nice with people!

Women love strong men, which means reliable and responsible men, not rude, impolite ones...
Hope it will help not to disappoint the woman you fancy/love!

Comments (33)

John3405
Thanks for the great advice will use itbouquet
For you
alexmf
I do try to stay away from the money topic for at least the first few dates but the women I have dated get very persistant about it. They start off oh you have a boat and live on lake and on and on and seem to get a bit frustrated with me if I dont go into detail. The last date I was on told me that I dont share enough.
stormriders
GREAT ADVICE!!!!!!!!!thumbs up
RGK1969
You hit the nail on the head w/this one sister. Amen!
gaze9
HiJana,
I liked 7-8-9 the most. I would add also, "whatever about your previous relationship, your feelings or anything else, don't lie".
afrodick
Sincere advices,thanks for your generousity.
annmarie06
At times ladies want to know more and why the previous relation ended. So some of us ask as we don't want to be attracted to the same sort of person we just broke up with.
ramass
so thats where im going wrong hadoh sad flower
very good list thanks
CoChnCrCinta
great advise! unfortunately, i always did bout 7-8 things on your list.
will try to avoid it next time laugh
africat41
hi jana28, you obviously know what ur at, made some of those mistakes myself and had to deal with the consequences...! very sound advice.
Tecco
Thanks for the advice
HuggerMan4U
Excellent advice, as always, Jana!
MoeSmiles
author needs a mushroom stamp on her forehead....women love that
Jana28
Thank you so much for your comments, gentlemen! These points come from my own life experience and I am very glad they are helpful! Good luck to you all teddybear
Jana28
Thank you for your comment Annmarie! I agree with you but here I give advice to men so I try to help them show in the best light ;)

In any case, digging too much into previous relationships is not healthy for the relationship.

Good luck to you! bouquet
shortybob
Totally Agree......sounds like my own Top 10 List for how to not piss a woman off!!1 sleep laugh banana applause
octapus10
Thanks Jana, I always seem to speak about myself too much and reveal too much.
Jana28
Thank you guys! wave
sameerjack
dear jana
thank for you fabulous advice i like it
Jana28
My pleasure Sameer! wave
joekickass
rule #1 is never say negative things ever.
leonak
BRAVO JANA!!! Super advise about not talking about past relationships!!!!
jacky1986
yep i am agree wid u
benidorm
Dear Jana appreciate your top ten list.I follow most of oyur tips.But do make mistakes will keep it simple and not cause to much expectations your great help wish you all the best.Benidormprofessor handshake
Jana28
Thank you all! I am glad I could be helpful! :)wave
viaheart
ONLY TEN TIPS FOR A WOMAN..
NOPE. I DON'T AGREE WITH YOU..

WOMEN ARE MOST MOST TYPICAL MACHINERY IN THE WORLD, THERE ARE NO INSTITUTION FOR "HOW TO DEAL WITH WOMEN" IN THE WORLD, JUST FULFILL THEIR WISHES, THEY WILL AUTOMATICALLY COME UNDER YOUR CONTROL
cris642
hmmm i duno i get the feeling that some women are just for some reason attracted to a** holes
Jana28
Viaheart, you are a happy person since you see things in such a simple way! Good luck with the "machineries", called women! wave
Jana28
Cris, you are right! But aren't many men attracted to "bad girls" too? wink
Hotguy55
Very good, sound advice, just wish i had a woman to use it on, (mabye one day)
Hotguy55
Very good, sound advice, just wish i had a woman to use it on, (mabye one day)
Hotguy55
Really good advice, janna
mr_faithfull
love this

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