Ten Things Women Don't Know About Men and Sex

Women are pretty astute when it comes to figuring out how guys think and act but they can still be somewhat clueless about certain things.In reality women knows most of these things but they tend to ignore them and secretly hope they arent true well.
1

Sex is an a job that men enjoy and strive at.

While men enjoy sex,they also consider it their duty to please a woman,and if they don't succeed in doing so they consider it an unsuccessful encounter.That doesn't means your man feels he has to necessarily bring you to climax;if you're not in the mood,simply tell him so,but be prepared to service him if you want to keep him happy.
2

Men bristle when you mention of your past relationship.

3

All men are pigs.

They all look at attractive women,They all fantasize about having sex with other women.Even the"nice guys" do this.Once you understand that their doing so isn't a threat to your relationship you will be much more happier
4

A women clothing,hair style, perfume and make up do little attract a man.

Certtwsinly those things can help make a woman more attractive,but what men are really attractive is a woman's personality.
5

To keep aman attracted to you play-hard to -get

6

When you ask a man what he is thinking,usually he will give you a vague answer to hide the fact that he is thinking about sex

7

The more you point out other attractive women to your man the more he will attracted to you

8

Men think about having sex with every woman they meet

9

Immediately after sex a physiological reaction causes men become emotionally detached from their partner

10

Men don't just want sex,they need sex.

sex is as important to a man as food and sleep are.when you deny a man sex to get back at him or to teach him a lesson you risk doing more harm than good and he will eventually seek it elsewhere,often with somebody he subsconsciously know will be particularly hurtful if you find out.

Comments (39)

This is an absurd.I prefer that you rather post your experience about man than just read and take some one else post from internet and paste it here.
Like what IMunbreakable1 verbalized i thoroughly accede with him and i am not surprised why you are still single woman.
augustine22
As for me.. all men's can never be the same...remember we have different characters, different gift from God..teddybear
yonatan143
no don't said that all men is same. some of it may be yes but not all.
EthopianRuler
I tend to question things...So my mind naturally dissect truth from error...I do understand the generalities that are mentioned...and if you ask me if these are accurate I would say 'Yes and No'....For example men do have a need for sex (very valid point), but diminishing the dignity of a man regardless of creed or ethnicity or personal preferences to a 'PIG' is unbecoming. Perhaps the idea that a man is a 'pig' or 'dog' because he looks at, yearn for and sexually desire attractive women, is fed from a narrowly Euro-concentric, Jewish-Christian sociology-religious platform, that assumes its imposition to be dogmatically justified on the entire globe...From now until such time, wars will be fought to show us - NOT SO!

Let me just state it simple - The points are good but not all together accurate at all. As a man I could never want to have sex with every woman I meet, because I would never be attracted to woman who is overweight, foul, loud or racist to name a few conditions I would avoid..My choice!
stevendd
Yip! pretty close
Reled11
Your right in some areas but i can assure you that your mind is out functioned on this topics.peace
emotioninmotion
To my way of thinking , you are really an enemy or foe to a man.All females are responsible for their husbands'delinquency. Females are created to amuse males legally and religiously .I do think most of males'delinquency is based upon females'gross negligence towards them.

My best regards ,Lemoniks22.
Mike03
Hello, just wanted to say, that sex should be fun and enjoyable for men and women, it's also good exercise! lol ;)
got2have
Rubbish!!!!barf
postneoludite
I'm so relieved.
I thought it was just me.
Flyin
Spirit, Soul and Body (1Thess5:23); there still are three of it and they NEED attention!

Some professor say spiritual life does not exist... many so called 'atheists' think so.

Some professor say soulish life is bad, many religious people think that.
But it is very good to feel, mmm, taste mmmmuaaachhh, hear yessss? oooaauhch, see mmmm... and smell mmmmgrrrr and use your senses (= being 'sensual': that's what it means).

Some professor say our body is 'sin'... but nooo way. Not one body = sin. laugh
Or they may think; "Men only think of sex, they are pigs".
These are often frustrated, bitter, condemning and often also religious people.
And have read that archaïc stuff of the -himself sick - founder of 'Psychology', Sigmund Freud.

Q. Choose a). b). or c). Or abc).
A. None of the above are right.

It's all gooooooooood!! And God saw it, it was very good! comfort
(Yes, okay, it depends on how you use them ; )
banana
teddydog
RowdyBoy: I completely agree with you.
Ivan
goldengloss
Ive read these a few times. Firstly are these just observations from your personal history with men ? Some women, through low self esteem, other reasons, attract immature men and 'players' who get a kick out of using and abusing.
I think in some ways, many of the things apply to a younger man.
~~~ doh Ive had dates with men who have a red flag flying over their heads 'danger ' but likewise, I have male friends who have had dates with similar women, there are users and abusers in both camps.
Men do need sex, I believe they need sex to be emotionally and physiclaly healthy and to relieve stress, its the way theyre wired.
However, many men go for long periods without sex until they find a decent partner. This goes for Gay men too.
~~~ Men are Pigs? I dislike the term. I think again, DNA, men are genetically the seed planters and do 'window shop' and look at beautiful women, if they do it discreetly that's ok. Men are by nature visual creatures and get turned on very easily , its in thier make up it doesnt make them pigs.
~~ I believe insecure people of both sexes can bristle when the x partner is brought up in conversation. However, I find it boring, I am not intersted.
I believe men can feel very close and warm and relaxed afer sex.
It is a myth that men dont crave emotional attachment.
~~ I believe man hasnt changed since the hunter gatherer age and likes to feel he is the 'chaser' to some extent, as in chasing a man doesnt work, nor does incessantly texting, phoning, let him do the woo ing. That hasnt changed. Its over, means its over and losing your dignity isnot something men like in a woman.
~~~~~ I believe most mature men, want a sensual, attractive, mature, non gameplaying woman, they can differentiate from reality and Fantasy.
Men need love too. They are far far less complicated and need respect, love, sex, food, and somebody to listen, they need space to go into their caves and not to be nagged 'Whats wrong'? they are simple. They watch porn but see it as a release of anxiety and totally unconnected to reality. Ive gone on too long as usual.
sudialx
After reading your thoughts, I conclude you are very possessive woman. But note down sex is emotional involvement. You may be getting athletic performance in bed from your man but not real pleasure that is why such comments.
kingkhan4943
Well...I agree with all of you actually, and am glad to see that these silly statements compelled you enough to state how untrue these statements are.
morison4642
yes pile of shit indeed , i hate these sweeping generalizations,
i have to get lumped in with the knuckle dragging morons out there, makes it hard to talk to women on these sites because they all think you just want sex all the time
mrrickers
Let me go at this point by point.

1) Sex is a physical act. Sure, most men think it is what they are meant to do, however it is not the end of the world not having sex. I like to talk with my partner, make her feel good about herself, not just go at it like two animals all the time.

2) Maybe valid if the information presented is used to hurt the guy's feelings. Yea, we have feelings and to compare us to others is not cool. Have had this happen, hurts.

3) Men are gross, perhaps pigs, but you are the right woman, a man could care less if there were other people around.

4) I like the fact a woman can talk about things and not act like a child or given. Be who you are.

5) Yea right, that works. Ha, show some interest, do not make him do all the work. That is when it becomes sex and not love

6) No, he might be thinking how much he loves you, hates you, work. Men do have some lives.

7) Why compare yourself to others? Stand on your own ground and be you

8) No. Just not true. Men do have other thoughts

9) I guess not guy has ever cuddled with his girl. That must have been a dream

10) Men need love like women. A relationship of love and trust and teamwork make things work, not humping and then saying goodbye.

I feel bad for you, it sounds quite bitter on your behave. Maybe if you find the right guy...
sneakapeak24
Notice how the men bristle at this and immediately go on theattack, everyone claiming to be the exception?rolling on the floor laughing Ironically, by their righteous indignation they prove this accurate. True, we are all different but the differences lie WITHIN this list not without. Even one pertaining to you makes it correct though most of us are a variation of a couple or few. Come on men, we are single for a reason(s) and the older we are the greater our issues because the lack of wisdom is testament to the inability to learn from past mistakes. The fact that a woman must have specific personality traits to hold my attention beyond one or two dates does not mean that if an attractive woman wants to go.back to my place for a fun and protected nightcap, even if she's about as sharp as an eraser, I'm going to turn her down. True, that's just me, but what also is just me, is my honesty about it. Instead of balking like adolescents fellas you should be taking notes because such insights from an obviously mature and observant woman could actually amount to your salvation from the lotion and calluses or blow up Bettiesconfused
TNzeem
Very good saying and appriciate your wishes.
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Glatlol
What an absolute pile of shite
RowdyBoy
Actually with some exception and some variation, the original list is pretty astute. Its true that all people are different, but are the same basic species, and do share a lot of similar characteristics.

Speaking of variations though: shock

1. While men enjoy sex,they also consider it their duty to please a woman,

So true! It wasn't always that way though. There was a time when that not only wasn't considered important, but it was considered largely impossible. o*gasm were a male thing to enjoy, and from a woman's perspective it was always about 'servicing' her man.

Such a long way we've come from those days.And thankfully so! Women have blossomed nicely, into their own realm of sensual intensity.. So, good for you gals! We knew you could do it..


2. Men bristle when you mention of your past relationship.

This is true. But that's not generally a very tasteful thing to do, no matter if you are the woman or the man. The woman usually likes it even less.

3. All men are pigs.

Perhaps. I've heard that many times. But then, men are the aggressor whose task it is to perpetuate the species. So, instinctively, it may not be entirely his fault. Mother Nature is a factor in that equation.

5. To keep a man attracted to you play-hard to -get

That's human nature more than a matter of one's gender. Everybody wants things that they feel are less than readily accessible. Few pursue a clinging vine.

8. Men think about having sex with every woman they meet

Oh my goodness, No!! Way off on that one! Sorry..

9. Immediately after sex a physiological reaction causes men become emotionally detached from their partner

Depends on the circumstances. Men tend to fear the female may have become more attached than he has. And they dread the potential drama that may create. Truth is though, in many cases the man has become the more attached (albeit more so in recent times).

10. Men don't just want sex,they need sex.

sex is as important to a man as food and sleep are. when you deny a man sex to get back at him or to teach him a lesson you risk doing more harm than good and he will eventually seek it elsewhere,often with somebody he subconsciously knows will be particularly hurtful if you find out.

Such as a sister or a close friend? Using sex as a bargaining chip is rarely advantageous to anyone concerned. Not a good place to venture. If it becomes a pattern though, he will seek it out elsewhere, eventually. Most men resist being held as s*xual hostages.
foutmelding
Copy paste shit!, Tell us what you really think or feel or stop your BS woman. XP
Nova511
I am a cool n sexy woman :-) and I am all those 11 :-):-):-)
paulness
dancing Nice job on this list!drinking drinking
m39kk
Ten Things Women Don't Know About Men and Sex
and this is written by....a woman!
ha laugh
aazarghafoor
i think it is not correct,
lorii
So all men are sex freaks?blues and they are mostly thinking about sex 24/7? and say if i get ill an dont feel up to having sex or he did something horrible and i dont really wanna have sex with him for a lil while... he would just like cheat? Lool okay :) officialy a lesbian!


Lorii drinking
lemonika22
oh really...thats good point thanks for that... lollaugh
Townboy88
Anyway you owns your mouth ,you can say anything you want.
But remember you as a woman can not stand still and write your name initial with your urine while peeing. This any many can do, even better at the tender age with out holding it. So shout up and think wisely.
Stevie_B
Apologies for this but, it has to be said. As it has been said by those before me. Your OUTLANDISH, SEXIEST and CHILDISH views on MEN and how 'THEY' view WOMEN & SEX is so far from reality it is INSULTING.

The list should be re-titled... 10 Things I Don't Know about MEN & SEX. I found it very arrogant of you to write something as polarizing and sexiest as NO. 3. "ALL MEN ARE PIGS", excuse me Ms. but how dare you.

As you can tell you've really hit a nerve with this reader. I have also read other posts you have put up and found them as insulting and unrelated to fact as this one.

Where do you get off? Are you a MAN?...I think not. An artical title as such, 1st off should be written by an HONEST Man, emphasis on the MAN as it is about MEN & SEX.

You have the mis-fortune to one, under-estimate MEN in general and two, under-estimate WOMEN, who would read this tripe and consider it fact.

You should be ashamed to put your name to such dribble.

Yours respectfully,

Disgusted.
Barri7
Hi thanks I found this most interesting and 90% true personally
Now your a woman so tell me what are the top 10 things men dont know or understand about women
Hope u will take d time 2 reply as I think u know what your on about
richard2008z
Some flaws in your comments Lemonika

2. Men bristle when you mention of your past relationship.
People's past relationships really doesn't bother me!

3. All men are pigs.
Probably true

4. A women clothing,hair style, perfume and make up do little attract a man.
Wrong!! Dressing & smelling good is a huge factor in what I'd look for in a woman!! Also hair styles/colour can really improve people in general appearance.. Both men & women!

6. When you ask a man what he is thinking,usually he will give you a vague answer to hide the fact that he is thinking about sex
What??? This just makes no sense

8. Men think about having sex with every woman they meet
Absolutely not. Sure we hardly think about having sex with women we don't find attractive

10. Men don't just want sex,they need sex.
Don't need sex. Just like it with the right person
Voyager757
what a looser who want to get stuck with that miserable woman
the wife from hellrolling on the floor laughing
PoppiesnOrchids
Well...I agree with all of you actually, and am glad to see that these silly statements compelled you enough to state how untrue these statements are.
PoppiesnOrchids
@imunbreakable
I agree....I had to chuckle at a few of her statements.
Kargyle227
You are obviously still * In Training *...right..??
....
'Nice Guys' that have an Attractive Woman don't even _Notice_ other women...
(except.. maybe..the cashier at Walmart..!)
I know....I used to have a wowGorgeouslove wife..!!
alexjjj
i can see why your still single...
yes,when i was young n dumb/not now,after 40 men mature lol.
IMunbreakable1
Please do not make statements and announce they are fact. Some of the stuff in there is completely silly and some of the other things may apply to some and not to others. You say this as if every man thinks and acts the same. IF this were true then women would be the same way. Do you agree all women are the same? I could say that all women want nothing but money, they are shallow, selfish, immature, overly emotional, etc and pass this off as fact but it would have to be true to all women to be fact. Also, just to single out one arguement, if a woman played hard to get with me, she would lose because I can't stand that. I would simply get bored of her and move on.
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