It's amazing how dumb one has to be to actually do these things. But it happens - a lot. This is taken from my own observations and stories from ladies who have encountered these types of men. Here's what I feel are the top 5 things men do that keep them alone and celibate...or at the very least an endless cycle of short term relationships.
1
Sending Nude Pics
Yeah, need I say more...even if your member is a monster, the type of woman responding to one of these is likely to leave a permanent bacterial memory of your little intimate conquest.
2
Being Self Centered
A guy who talks entirely about himself (especially in the 3rd person) doesn't get to know who you are is likely not going to last longer than a 2 minute pleasure threshold or second date...
3
Comparing You With Past Relationships
It's hard to feel special when you are thinking he's wanting you to be like someone else. There's a right and wrong way - and time to talk about this.
4
Talking About Sex Immediately
Hmmmm, it would seem the 2nd (and much smaller) man brain could take a break when getting to know someone initially. If she wants to F**k, it will come up - so give it a rest.
5
Writing Lame Messages To Women
We all have our moments of greatness and stupidity, but men who don't put at least a little thought into a message sent to a woman are pretty much limited to the craigslist-ish bottom dwellers.
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Bottom line, don't judge, suppose or take for granted that everyone will act upon their worst behaviour. Some people are dolts because of anxiety or nervousness and want to kick themselves after the fact. IF there is a second chance and nothing changes, give 'em the boot - male or female.
And even if it was the one you want to marry, why risk losing the best thing you could ever have just for a cheap thrill.
And anyone who responds to those types of behaviors...well..they should just use the "intimate encounter" feature of this site to find someone who wants to participate, and leave the rest alone.
I would rather wait until I find a keeper and make it official by marriage. Then "our stuff" is free for the giving, and worth receiving.
7. Absent-mindedly picking between his toenails before sex, when the shoes and sox come off.
8. Picking HER nose.
9. Peeing on the toilet seat.
10. Hitting on her mother.
Seriously, come on. I'm raring to go.
Seriously, come on. I'm raring to go.
I think everyone is a gift self centered. Its to what degree one is. I understand that one that is self absorbed is probably a sociopath.
I'm guilty of lame messages. I'm trying to get your attention. Trying to make you laugh. They all can't be aces. But, I'll work at it.
Not all guys are just looking for sex. Yes we ALL like it. Some of us do want that connection with a woman that is legit. It can be discouraging for men as well. Many of the profiles are the same on these sites. You love to trave!l, family is the most important thing, you're the life of the party, etc. Just a suggestion ladies, those are cliché. Apologies if that offends some of you. It just becomes redundant.
Anyway, I wish all of you the best of luck in your quest.
Men should listen to the woman and think and ask about her life. Instead of making judgment on if they want her or not. I have told men on different dating sites I have a brain concussion and do not like to be asked to have sex when we first meet.
All the men I have talked to in the past from different dating sites would keep asking me to have sex when we first meet or keep asking questions until sex was brought up.
WHY DO MEN ONLY THINK OF SEX AND NOT THE RELATIONSHIP. . .