top 10 reasons why Im scared to fall in love

Froggie went a'courtin', he did ride, uh huh! Froggie went a'courtin' he did ride, uh huh! Froggie went a'courtin', he did ride - a sword and a pistol by his side! Oh, Froggie went a'courtin' he did ride, uh huh! That's a song that was written and sung during the American Civil War. Otherwise, we frogs don't carry swords and pistols - just AK-47's for when Storks and Cranes come a'courtin', uh huh! Ribbit-t-t (SPLASH)

goodadvice mjames.

ah thats how we all feel sure well girls anyway were paro f*ck ha jus remember don hate the player hate the game

I hear ya ohio19...but i also agree with optimusprimerib..there are so many more reasons to find love...ive been hurt before too,but i always have hope that i will one day meet the man im meant to share the rest of my life with.Nobody wants to grow old alone...Life and love is full of hurt and pain,,,you got to take the good with the bad.:)

Well, if I look within I know, it is only me myself I can ever blame for making a wrong choice in the relationships. The signs are apparent but for some reasons whatever they might be it is difficult to break away immediately.

I agree, that Love is action not words but sometimes even when you come across a hunter, they are very good in manipulation and taking a right actions at the right time in the beginning of a relationship, and many gullible woman might fall, it could be vice versa for men too.

Even normal men sometimes rush themselves along with a woman into a relationship or an affair, just becoz they get carried away by s*xual attraction and behave in an irresponsible manner. The worst part is that when they realised that for some practical reasons relationship is not suitable they can really behave like a nerd. They can really behave in a manner (so not to take a blame on themselves) that a woman herself has to opt out whether in love or not.

Anyway- Let love come last when the lessons learned, like everything else it should be earned:)

I think fear is sometimes the by-product of what we are experiencing when we meet new people. Learning to manage the complications associated with new relationships can help. Not giving up on needs, desires, and wants is a choice. I think what is key is learning how to pick up all the pieces that make us who we are, and carrying those with us into our futures when love has run its course. It might read easy to do, but it can be oh so painful anyhow.

Best wishes..

Love hurts, love scars, love wounds' and most
Any heart not tough or strong enough
To take a lot of pain, take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud, it holds a lot of rain
Love hurts

I'm young, I know, but even so
I know a thing or two, I learned from you
I really learned a lot, really learned a lot
Love is like a flame it burns you when it's hot
Love hurts
Some fools think of happiness, blissfulness, togetherness
Some fools fool themselves, I guess
They're not foolin' me
I know it isn't true, I know it isn't true
Love is just a lie made to make you blue
Love hurts!


BUT STILL EVERYONE IS SEEKING FOR LOVE...NO ONE CAN DENY! BECAUSE IT IS ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY FOR THE HUMAN BEING

Its hard to find someone who isn't selfish. Yes, i agree...but even if all people are liers, cheaters and hypocrates, make sure you are not one of them!...i'm not, and i'm proud to say it!! :)

Real love is a compilation of many things, too many to list, but love cannot exist without mutual respect! Look for that first, then allow time for things to grow naturally! Jmo

Even I'll know I am going to die from falling in love... I will do that again and again. Love is only things in life reminds me I am alive.

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS

love? what is love anyway???

love is a weakness,,, you fall in love and what comes with it?
jealously, mistrust, insecurity, pain, and unhappyness when it goes wrong,,, wemon look too hard anyway for love,, ya
most of the demands on this site are from weman looking for
relationships,, long term,, marriage,, why dont they just look for a guy to meet first,,, any relationship has to start with meeting someone,, see how they get on,,, get over the s*xual barrier first,, which is very importent,, this thing about must not be lookin for sex, or intimate incounter? the truth be told
that's the first thing both partys look for, and see how they feel after that,, they either
carry on or move on,,, and continue their search for "love"
anyway my experience of the opposite sex on these dating site
is receiving one message every 24 hours,, i would be a long time waiting to meet someone at that rate,, and there, all the time watching out for the slightest s*xual inuindo,, your forced to be dishonest,,, because if you say what you feel,, there gone into the night,,, they act like sex is there gift to you,, you know,,does it not take two... do they not have orgasams???
is there not blood running through their veins?? anyway i could talk forever,,some will agree with the above opinion,, very few wemon, me thinks,, but most men i hope,,, im in a kinda relationship with a woman,, we meet up once a week, have a laugh,everything goes,, food, chat,music and loads and loads of sex, i drop her back to her life the following morn, we have been this going for the last eight years and we still look forward to it,, no love to get in the way,,, if i saw her walking down the road with another man, i would not bat an eye,, if i was in love
i would be crushed,ya, so i will finish with the words of the great tina turner... " whats love got to do with it" ??????

a happy limerick man

jerry

first of all you are guilty for this, bcoz when you search a real love,you forget that you are not searching a real love ...infact you are searching only lust for physical enjoyment...and it is understood...it is for a few moments...dear love is just different than lust...

hey....i agree with Mr. James

tell it like it is

I think we look for love as a Ideal,a pocession were gave in life,we complicate all that is so simple,Its around all of us,and sadly we just do not realise it,or for that matter see it,Just be aware as it passes but a few times,and you must follow the heart of your self thoughts,exsept who you are and the fear dissapears.....!

I agree with you there thank you for you comment

Love is the dew that find's it's morning and is refreshed... you will find it!!!

thank you all for you thoughts

for some reason your reasons are bitter but yet you are still on this site hoping your luck will change all i have to say to you is you dont fall in love you create love by showing emotions and feelings that is beyond you yourself for now dont go out there looking for love instead let love come to you be happy and have fun with your life and i arsure you love will fine you.

i agree with mjames love is actions not word and so many times many of us ae confused when it comes to that

Love Love Love Love. That sick thing is sick at times and good at times and i wonder how long will all that last or is the fact all about encountering with the wrong one that hurts.

Trying to understand it for 25 yrs as love differs from a relationship to another.mama's,dada's,bro's,sis's friend's and finally the lover boy's .

I believe that the lover boy's hurts the most 'cuz most of the times we crazy girls get immersed and totally in so much of love that even the sky isn't the limit for our love and when the crazy career made men will begin 2 try white lies and thereit all ends.... our obsession and flawless love where Mr.doubt and Mr.Hasty enters to to break us apart.

Way back my 2nd statement, we don' care if love of other relationships stays or not but expect the loverboy's love to stay. Well..... it's bound to be that way for a man needs the woman as much as the woman does....

The key is patience,space,time,compassion,supporting one another and be there for presence and power of absence will teach the man to run back to his lady love.Damn, he doesn't, he certainly doesn't deserve any woman. So, chuck him and make sure that you [in general]catch hold of the right one for our past will certainly lead us right.

mjames.. you are a very wise man, i stayed with a man who hit me for a long time and i thought that i still loved him, when i finally left him i realised that my life has been waiting to start and the whole time ive been wasting it on him,
had i have looked after my own happiness properly i would have walked away the first time. Girls, we need to have higher standards, if somebody doesnt make you feel great about youself everyday then its ok to walk. There is always someone else. Keep your chin up and your standards high and you wont go far wrong.

Words well spoken, Thanks for sharing.

my top 10 reason why I want to fall in love:

1. knowing that where ever I am, that person is thinking about me.

2. sharing special moments

3. getting through hard times

4. getting butterflies everytime I see them

5. holding them in my arms

6. starting a family

7. laughing and smiling together

8. not being alone and feeling lonely anymore

9. not having to be on dating sites to try to find someone lol

10.and overall, the feeling of being in love

You may be scared, and it is understandable, but you must remember that there are also many reasons that one should want to fall in love. I hope you find what you are looking for

I think you are selling yourself short; many of these things on your list are done to us because we allow it.

Many women especially are blind to what a dog a guy is until they leave. I think it's wrong to say I have no control over a relationship; I'm just a victim and if things go bad, he's a dog and poor me.

Love is action; not words; and many women obsess over a guys words and never look at what they do. When a guy cheats but then tells the girl I'm sorry I love you, then they have a chance to get back in with her.

I look at actions; if the words don't equal the actions then the person isn't real.

Remember that no one puts a gun to someones head and says,"you have to date him". It takes two to tango; good luck,

i kno exactly how u feel