benselby: Could you be who I am searching for?

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Taken March 2019

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I am a retired, solvent IT consultant, with a very good sense of humour who likes just about all food (particularly anything Asian or spicy) , nice wine (red preferred) and good music - I have a very varied taste - from blues- classics - jazz - pop - rock. I have no tattoos, or piercings - love tenor sax, Hammond B3. I am a non smoker, love swimming and reading - cant go anywhere without my Kindle! I have traveled extensively and have lived in Murcia for 4 years. I like to cook & will try my hand at anything with varying results. Am very easy to please, reliable, honest and very loyal. I like open-ness & eye contact - eyes can "communicate" far better in many cases than speech. I drive an "open top car" which is superb for the lovely climate we have where I live. I love F1, motocross - in fact any type of motorsport - 2 or four wheels. Not a footy fan at all but love Rugby.

My pet hates are deliberate rudeness and bad manners - sadly very common on dating sites like this one. Last UK home was on the south coast in Hampshire. My photos are all very recent.

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No time wasters, players or scammers please!

I would like to meet someone with "good old fashioned values"; a good sense of humour (very important to me) - someone that does not live in the past, is not bitter about a previous relationship & does not take life too seriously - someone that can look me in the eye when communicating (I do not like people with shifty eyes) . Also, she needs to be reasonably intelligent and be able to hold a good conversation and (hopefully) being able to cook, would be a real bonus.

Someone honest, genuine and sincere and not be afraid of showing affection. Someone that likes the good things in life (but is happy with a sarnie, can of beer / soft drink and good conversation) and knows how to enjoy themselves, and of course knows how to relax doing the more simple things in life.

Ideally I am looking for someone to share my life with as I have got plenty of good friends. Someone to explore and enjoy Spain with - go on adventures - watch sunsets & sunrises together.

You must speak English, be unattached and (preferably) be a non smoker, and you must show recent & clear photos on your profile.

By the way, I hate bad manners and will reply to all messages (unlike many here), so get in touch - NOW!! I am solo, with no pets and no ties ;)

Sorry, but if you don't have a RECENT photo please do not make contact. Also if you are tied to a four legged friend, we would not get on as well as I like spontaneity - the freedom to do what you want when you want!

Thanks for reading this.


Retired IT consultant / secure computing specialist in the military electronics area.

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