benselby: Looking for genuine & sincere life-travel partner with GSOH

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My Details

  • I am: 76 yr-old man seeking woman, 55-79
  • Located in: Puerto Mazarron, Murcia, Spain, Western Europe
  • Last online: Online within 2 weeks
  • Height: 5' 9"  (175 cm)
  • Body Type: Few extra pounds
  • Hair Color: Gray
  • Eye Color: Hazel
  • Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
  • Education: Associate Degree
  • Religion: Christian/Protestant
  • Occupation: Retired
  • Income: ---
  • Smokes: Never
  • Drinks: Occasionally
  • Marital Status: Divorced
  • Has kids: Yes, they are far away
  • Wants kids: No Way
  • Sign: Pisces Pisces Men in Spain

More About Me

I am a retired, solvent English IT consultant - long divorced, with a very cheeky sense of humour who likes just about all food (particularly anything Asian or spicy) , nice wine (red preferred) and good music - I have a very varied taste - from blues- classics - jazz - pop - rock. I have no tattoos, or piercings - love tenor sax, Hammond B3. I am a non smoker, love swimming and reading - cant go anywhere without my Kindle! Have recently discovered audio books which I find amazing adding a new depth to a good book - it is so easy to get immersed!

I have traveled extensively worldwide; have homes in the UK (Hampshire) & Southern Spain (Murcia region - right on the coast, 900m from the beach). I have had my home here in Spain for 8 years, where I tend to spend most of the time - mainly due to the 320 days of sunshine we enjoy every year, and the very low cost of living and relaxing life style - allowing me to fully enjoy my "sunset years" :) I must add that I don't feel my age, as my heart has no wrinkles yet!

I am very easy to please, reliable, honest and very loyal. I own two "open top cars" (one is a 2 seater over 20 years old) which are superb for the lovely climate where I live. I love Formula 1, motocross - in fact any type of motorsport - 2 or four wheels (have since sold my bikes). Not a footy fan at all (apart from the UK Lionesses) but love Rugby. I like to cook & will try my hand at anything with varying results.

My pet hates are deliberate rudeness and bad manners! Last UK home was on the south coast in Hampshire. My photos are all recent - oldest 2022 newest 2023.

I am a "Myers-Briggs" ENFP type.



This is where I live:-

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(NOT my video!) - Come and join me - lets share watching sunsets & sunrises together.

More About my Match

I would like to meet someone with "good old fashioned values"; a good sense of humour (very important) - someone that does not live in the past, is not bitter about a previous relationship & does not take life too seriously - someone that can look me in the eye when communicating (I do not like people with shifty eyes) . Also, she needs to be reasonably intelligent and be able to hold a good conversation and (hopefully) being able to cook, would be a real bonus.

Someone honest, genuine, loving and sincere and not be afraid of showing affection. Someone that likes the good things in life (but is happy with a sandwich, can of beer / soft drink and good conversation) and knows how to enjoy themselves, and of course knows how to relax doing the more simple things in life.

Ideally I am looking for someone to share my life with as I have got plenty of good friends - not someone I can live with, but someone I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT!

Someone to go on adventures together - watch sunsets & sunrises together.

You must speak English, be unattached and preferably be a non smoker, and you must show recent & clear photos on your profile.

By the way, I hate bad manners and WILL REPLY TO ALL MESSAGES, so get in touch - NOW!!

I am solo, with no pets and no ties ;)

Sorry, but if you don't have a ***RECENT photo*** please do not make contact, however I do respect your decision not to upload one.:)

No time wasters, players or scammers please !

Thanks for reading this.

Ethnicity

Born in Cornwall - raised in Yorkshire

Education

Extensive training in IT - software and hardware.

Occupation

Retired IT consultant / secure computing specialist in the secure military electronics area. Now designing & building websites.

Match Details

  • Seeking: Woman | 55-79 yrs
  • Located: Within 300 miles of Puerto Mazarron, Murcia, Spain
  • For: Long-term Dating
  • Height: 5' 4"  (163 cm) to 5' 10"  (178 cm)
  • Religion: Christian/Catholic, Christian/Protestant, Christian/Other, Jewish, New Age, Spiritual but not religious
  • Smokes: Never
  • Drinks: Occasionally
  • Marital Status: Divorced, Widowed, Separated
  • Has kids: Yes, they are far away
  • Wants kids: No Way

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