Wondering why, what, when and where next.
  • 57 yr-old man seeking woman, 43-53
  • Polis, Paphos, Cyprus, Western Europe
  • Dec 21
  • 5' 10"  (178 cm)
  • Few extra pounds
  • Salt & Pepper
  • Blue
  • White/Caucasian
  • Masters Degree
  • Spiritual but not religious
  • Retired
  • Less than $25,000
  • Socially
  • Socially
  • Divorced
  • Yes, they are far away
  • No Way
  • Virgo Virgo

Match Details

  • Woman | 43-53 yrs
  • Cyprus
  • Long-term Dating
  • Skinny, Slim/Slender, Fit/Athletic, Modelesque, Average, Proportional
  • No Way | No, and seeking same | No, but welcome yours | No, been there, done that | No, but love my grand kids

More About Me

Conventional looking, pseudo intellectual hippie misfit suffering from an existential crisis.

OK, start again.

One option for relationship offered... so i selected long term. But I don't think that you look for a long term relationship. It's something that emerges. A fling repeats, becomes short term, becomes long term... anyway, as you wish. But I'm really open to anything.

Well traveled. Known wealth as well as poverty. Artistically sensitive, but scientifically rational. Broad minded. Seeking and pondering. Far too candid. News and documentary freak. Economics, physics, meaning of life.

Keen observer of beauty. A bit intense at times. It's an amazing world. To be alive surely demands some degree of passion.

Likes Latin/jazz feel music. Sci fi/quality drama films. Not a cliched culture vulture, but enjoys an art gallery. Trying at art photography.

Prefers small groups. Not good at small talk. Can be jocular in right company, but also overwhelmed by large groups or loud people.

Two sons at uni (medicine and ecology). Divorced 14 years ago. Single is good, but black hole at centre of my universe.

Lobster thermidore disguised as steak and chips.

Low energy... not a mountain hiker. But would fly a microlight across a desert, or drive through a jungle, or sail around the Greek islands.

I know it's a cliche, but I tend to get on better with people younger than i am, male or female. 40 to mid 50's.

(ex UK. Raised in Zambia. Lived Budapest for a while, then Crete 15 months, now Cyprus from a month ago )

Pics.. First is about 6 years old. I'm as photogenic as a Hippo's bottom. So I ran off 30 on my phone tonight and the rest are the best of those. No full length mirror (and would die rather than buy a selfie stick). So you'll just have to imagine my sleek, well muscled body and legs with bulges in the right places.(think further up)
And eyes are blue despite pea and ham soup, and pink, colour in pics

More about my Match

Phlegmatic. Perceptive. Thinking. Educated. and intelligent. World aware. Not ostentatious. Wisely cynical. Gently flippant. Wonders deeply. Pretty and slim in a normal, average way. A bit younger than me. High libido. Chilled and sincere rather than bouncy, ever smiling dynamo. Enjoys a drink. Loves animals. Likes lying on beaches watching stars rather than being in wine bars. (great legs :-))

Probably irritated by the conventional. Not a conservative.

Sees long term relationships as unpredictably emergent rather than something to be sought after and created. Like happiness.

Oh and 15 year old photos.. c'mon. We'll find out eventually. Let's just be honest. I've tried to be.


2x MSc degrees. But reading and thinking too.


Attempting to make a living from stock markets (hence occupation given as retired - there isn't a classification for winging it). Completely gone off the career stuff... smoke and mirrors. Might like a craft.

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