debokanagan: Soul searching (searching for you)

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I would describe myself as a mix of homebody and adventurer. I see myself as a down to earth, strong, intelligent (in some areas), real person that has a goofy, twisted, sarcastic sense of humor.
I've lived in a lot of places in my life and because of that, have lived a somewhat unconventional life. These days: I lean toward spirituality and enjoy the simple things in life; books, animals, music (all music), movies, date nights, photography, arts and crafts, trying new recipes, cheesecake (yum), sunshine (not the intense heat though), boating, the ocean, road trips, the night sky, peaceful environments, exploring and enjoying all the Okanagan has to offer, and city getaways.
I am open, honest and REAL, and am looking for the same in a man.

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My ideal match would have some of the same interests that I do, and would be open and honest, real, attentive, fun, intelligent, kind, supportive, strong, communicative, and have a quick wit. I'll recognize you when I find you. :D

It's obvious to me that many people aren't taking the time to read my full profile before responding. When this happens, it's an automatic red flag to me and feels like a waste of my time.
I DO NOT GIVE OUT PERSONAL INFORMATION OR CHAT WITH ANYONE ANYWHERE BUT HERE, UNTIL I FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH SOMEONE, SO PLEASE DON'T ASK. I will also probably not respond if your profile or message is full of spelling mistakes, bad English, etc.
And last, but not least, if it's just a fling you are looking for, then I'm not the person for you. I enjoy intimacy with the right person, but do not do 'hit and runs'. Using people and being used does not work for me. I'm looking for the real deal and have a lot of love to give to the right person.


I've had way worse ones than I have now, so I"m quite happy.

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