DELANO237: At this age, I'm no longer explaining basic principles of respect and loyalty. Actions speak loud!
My Details
- I am: 41 yr-old man seeking woman, 21-36
- Located in: Centerpoint, Alabama, USA
- Last online: Online over 1 month
- Height: 6' 0" (183 cm)
- Body Type: Fit/Athletic
- Hair Color: Black
- Eye Color: Brown
- Ethnicity: Mixed Race
- Education: PhD/Post Doctoral
- Religion: Spiritual but not religious
- Occupation: Legal
- Income: $150,000+
- Smokes: Socially
- Drinks: Socially
- Marital Status: Divorced
- Has kids: Yes, they don't live with me
- Wants kids: Definitely
- Sign:
Cancer
More About Me
I'm a combination of things, while I love hard, I tend to be sensitive (feelings wise) but in a masculine way, am straight forward, very humble and patient, open-minded and up to adventure. I'm not the one to place limits on anything other than my standards for myself. I'm super sarcastic and funny once I get to know a person, but am able to switch modes to being professional and in having an open ear. I'm not physically abusive, but friends tell me that I need to work on things I say to people. I guess that comes from the military, and working in the legal field. I don't intentionally try to hurt others with my words, but I need work there for sure. I am always looking for someone who is able to strike up a conversation that involves just about anything. I never claim to know everything, but I am proud to say that I am very educated, even though my crazy ways come out from time to time. What I mean by that is I like to joke and play a lot, but I know when and where. I don't hate because I would not want anyone hating me, but I get very disappointed at the fact of being let down. Family is number one for me, and when I have a family I make them my number one. I have a son who is 11 years old but does not live with me due to his mothers' and my differences, but I don't allow that to interfere with my life to a degree. I take care of my son and am very responsible. I have a big heart of gold but am not so adapt to allowing myself to be played out of what I have worked hard for. I've worked in every situation from fast food to the Pentagon, and I have experienced everything from jail, gangs, to graduating from one of the to 25 law schools in the country. (I'm a proud Mustang! Go SMU!)
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More About my Match
Simple Every man has his own definition of an ideal Woman. For me, an ideal Woman is the one who respects me and my parents as well as herself, treats them as her own, and she's not afraid to help them if they have any problem in life! (both my parents are no longer alive) Apart from this, I want her to love us, respect us, trust eachother, care for one another, respect our career choices, provide freedom and respect for both of our decisions in whether we want to have kids or in acting as parents of existing children from previous relationships - she shouldn't push decisions on me or force me to do something I don't want to do. She should stand by me in my tough times, advice and guide me as her partner professionally as well as personally and be there in all my important events in our and our children's lives. I'd like my mate to realize that I am human, not just a money-earning machine, and for me, a womans emotions are always at an upper-hand! I don't want an emotionless person, but someone who is expressive and emotional, open-minded and easy-going, someone who knows how to laugh and cry and someone who can make me laugh too. Apart from all this, I want a person who sees life as a whole, and not in installments! She shouldn't live according to her monthly job, she shouldn't divide things in months - basically I don't want a misses, I have an allergy from people who believe in 'saving' more than 'spending', I mean, what's the point of saving if you accidentally perish without fulfilling any of your dreams today? Some people live in present, some live in future, and I Want someone who lives and believes in living in 'present'. Savings are important, but being a misses isn't necessary for saving anything.
Occupation
I was previously practicing law in Texas but am now here in Birmingham. I am the CEO/Director of an Emergency Disaster Response Organization that handles disaster response, relief, medical transport, armed contracted security, assisted housing, and a
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