djd103: Genuine Guy Seeks Genuine Gal

winter 2013
winter 2013
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A gentleman I am, but a scholar I'??m not (smiles). A mellow heart, a more special heart to offer, a heart that sincerely and genuinely enjoys the simpler things and definitely do not fit the term ??materialistic?. Harmony at home, my pup and some form of pleasant purpose is all I need to exist given the creature comforts afforded me, but for the lack of someone to appreciate, experience and indulge in the life and love that i??s naturally there to share. I look for that special kind of enduring love like the one my Grand-folks had, that type of life that nurtured smiles and laughs and giggles in each other for 70 years. The fast paced ??fool fuel? form of dating today, that so many can??t help but abuse, is ??not? for me. I a??m not looking to cure a life of boredom with the mere execution of another??s heart, but rather look for that simplified, harmonious life-long friendship that spawns a feeling of contented companionship that one just cannot do without. I have always believed in, perhaps the overly philosophical thought, that our "inner spirit" is more like a personal companion that accompanies us in our own "walk of life"; A soft spoken friend conveying its feelings to us in softly silent coos and whispers to help guide us on our pathway. Now I realize that some may think these words and outlook may seem rather philosophically foolish, but I will be the first to admit that sometimes I come across confused. It i??s okay though, my grandma said I was born that way! LOL Please though, for the benefit of us both, no ??froo-froo? flighty fashionistas or Southern Belle Socialites who are more interested in ??self? than ??selfless?. It i??s the more comfortable, mellower form of a non-aggressive, balanced woman that the term ??lady? naturally fits and melds with, that I will be more than honored to enjoy life's dance floor with.

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This is so hard to wriet down as I think she will surprise me when I see her. One thing for sure, she will have a genuine heart, and she will be non-aggressive. Whoops, that's two things. But I don't think a person can be compatible with someone else 24/7 if they have an aggressive spirit that has to "pound" their thoughts into you to be understood. I want to find someone that can spark hope in my life, reaffirm the belief that my heart is still open, assert her independence in a mellow mannered, calm voice, and without having to prove anything, make life more pleasurable without even trying, just by being there. That in a nutshell is why seldom do I receive any messages. I'm not the ugliest guy out there, and I am a gent with a compassionate heart that offers a genuineness that "most" say they seek. I am not a demanding man, nor do I come off as domineering, even though I am tall and have a deep voice sort of. I am easygoing and she would need to be too. But when it comes to filling the shoes of that fictional persona I just wrote about, there seem to be allot of "wanna-be's" but few that make the grade without having to strain and exert themselves wy past their limits. LOL


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