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I have been single for 14 years. In that time I have always lived alone except for several years mentoring a PhD candidate. I have seriously dated twice in those years with a 5 year break in between. Once with someone my age. Last time with someone younger.

I'm comfortable with who I am at this point in my life and not thirsty for jumping into something just to have someone. I have very deep and enduring friendships that will never change because that kind of respect is well earned over time.

I am not a smoker, don't use any kinds of drugs, I love to cook and keep wine on hand for a nice meal but that is the extent of my drinking. I am not conservative. My spirituality is not defined by worship or religion. I am straight but I have friends of every gender and every spirituality with no judgement from me.

I am Maryland ghetto born and raised, got out, outgrew the hood mindset, and removed the N word from my vocabulary. I am a people person. Love road trips, festivals, cookouts, karaoke, and time on the water.

My DNA test revealed that, although I was born and raised here in the United States, I am Nigerian, Sierra Leonean, Kenyan, Massai, Scandinavian (Sweden, Denmark, Norway), Baltic (Russia, Ukraine), Italian, Filipino, Indonesian, and Malaysian. My view of the world is equally as broad minded and always was even as a child totally out of step with my family and the hood I grew up in.

It was a relief to finally uncover the truth that everyone knew but me-that I was not my father's child. It helped clarify the confusing passive aggression and rejection I was told was all in my head that I experienced all throughout a painful childhood.

I tell you this so that you understand, I spent a lifetime fighting to be me in the face black ignorance and white fear toward a very intellectually and spiritually gifted black child. So if you are looking for a stereotypical traditional minded black man, I am not him. You can throw that book out the window.

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In my relationships, I have experienced traditional monogamy, open relationships, and polyfidelity. I have never been the jealous or possessive type and am comfortable with involving my heart wherever there is honesty- regardless of tradition.

Since I have no ties here in the Midwest, usually travel alone, and love to explore different places, I am open to local and long distance conversations as long as you also have the ability to travel. I don't like one sided situations.

There are a lot of scammers who are quick to ask for personal contact information so I don't get into deeply personal questions with online strangers. I will chat here for a few days to feel you out but I am not into the endless online or text thing.

I actually prefer to chat over lunch or dinner. My weekends are usually free and I would make the effort to travel and meet the right person. If you cannot say the same, then pass me by.

I can work from anywhere and have moved for love before. I would only do that again one last time and it would have to be one heck of a relationship for me to do it.

I don't do smokers or drug users of any kind. I especially adore children and have no problem with family outings. I'm usually the biggest kid of them all.

If you do not have a recent photo posted, it is unlikely that I will reply to you. And if you made no effort to honestly introduce yourself on your profile, I will only reply if your first message gives me a reason to be interested.


I recently did my DNA test and here were my results Nigerian, West African, Sierra Leonean, Kenyan Maasai Central African Scandinavian Baltic Italian Filipino, Indonesian and Malay


I am a spiritual minded man but I am not a religious man. I walk in the light of the love this life has taught me to give to others no matter their color, nationality, sexuality, or their past.


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