Evago: As the instruction manuals say please read before using (or in this case writing) if you contact me!

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Me in my heyday... don't think I changed that much but you will have to meet me to see if I aged like fine wine or look like Jabba the Hut now.
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Due to the number of scammers on this site, I check this site only sporadically so if you write and not get an answer immediately just be patient (PLEASE don't delete your account right away as some do-wonder if it's because I don't answer you right away, sigh) also I will want to exchange numbers right away (my way of detecting fakes) NOT be a number on an app, but a regular number I can call from phone of computer-can be google voice or text now which are US based, (IF sigh, you are paranoid about giving your real number and then if you are, you probably shouldn't be contacting me) but I will give you mine first if it makes you feel more comfortable.

I wrote another profile, which seems to have disappeared, so I had to create this one on here, it's a very frustrating, but its a long story, so since I don't want to rewrite it you will have to meet me to find out what I'm like. I hate to be negative, as I am a bright, funny, attractive person, but have to say this, because of the number of fake profiles on here. I actually AM on here to meet a real person, hopefully to have a romance, but due to the propensity of fake profiles (90%-pity since otherwise I like this site a lot, they don't keep trying to upgrade you for a fee service and has a lot of features) I will respond only to people only close enough go out a date (don't know why men chose to contact women who live far away, so they don't have to spend money courting them??) that means I will NOT respond to likes or emails from people from outside the Southern CA area, unless you say in your email if you live quite far that you are willing to come out here or you will help pay for me to come out THERE. . I haven't talked much about myself, so just MEET me, we don't have to do anything expensive, can take a walk or bike ride and get to know each other, I like to do a lot of active things. I am funny and intelligent and NICE so even if you choose never to meet again, you will at least enjoy your time with me.

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First, if you are a little out of my age range, you can contact me, unlike the other sites, this one doesn't block it but only by a few years NOT decades I have a pretty big spread in the age range I desire. Also please have a regular phone number NOT just app phone numbers, although googlevoice and textnow numbers are all right, unfortunately app phone numbers are often those of scammers. Although NOT attracted to African Americans, we can always be platonic friends if that is what you want.

Do NOT start with hello pretty, sexy, you are beautiful etc. etc. when you first contact me or just saying hi it just sounds like something you copy and paste and send to hundreds, I'll just ignore it. I WANT a person who doesn't just look at a photo, (and you should read ALL the captions if photos are more important than what I write in my profile and READ my blog before you contact me) and tell me what is interesting about me that made you want to contact me, say something of SUBSTANCE. I do not put what I am looking for in a tangible sense, because chances are the one you get smitten with has not of those traits, but I am especially attracted to men who participate in charity causes. I do NOT want anybody who will say that they are new (usually because they are fake profiles) but wants a person who knows how to communicate and is somewhat cynical and jaded from being on here way too long (and am only half joking.)

I said many things on my past profile (maybe too much so will keep this profile short and simple) but I am especially looking for someone with courtesy, who if he changes his mind about meeting me, let's me know and not just stand me up, let's me know if he doesn't want to see me again or if we had a long history of talking telling me he changed his mind about meeting instead of just ghosting and I, in return will treat you just as politely. Please don't ask me questions already answered in the profile, like do I have kids etc.


Please do NOT ask what Asian ethnicity, I am American born so have American tastes and don't EVER say I dig Asian woman, a BIG turnoff for Asian woman, we want to be liked for ourselves not race.


Chabanol Language School, San Francisco School of Travel and of course, the School of Hard Knocks not Knocers LQTM!


Have not gone to church lately but I am inclined to say Unitarian which accepts everything (except maybe the Church of Satan) but go more for the social aspects rather than the spiritual reasons.


Worked for airlines and was landlord.

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