Floptimistic: Don't judge me for what I'm seeking; that's not the whole story

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Briefly and simply: I'm intelligent, kind, honest, loyal, and genuine, and am attracted to conversation of a more intimate, or personal nature. I don't mean necessarily revealing each other's deepest secrets kinda thing, but conversation where each are themselves, and open about things, whether it leaves you in a vulnerable position, or not; I like genuinely getting to know people. I like flirting, too. It's stimulating, exciting and fun, and, if I had my way, both these things would be combined. I chose 'intimate encounter,' and I can explain more fully, in conversation, just why, but I'm honestly open to anything. I'm self-aware, and philosophical enough to know that casual sex is just a substitute for what I really want, on a deeper level. Yes, I DO mean love, but I'm not going to spill all my guts here for EVERYone to read. I like being personal and intimate, but moreso with one person at a time; not so much with the whole viewing public.

I'm very easy going, and laid back. Still not exactly sure I know just what those terms mean, but I think everyone generally has an idea that seems to coincide. I've got a good, and diverse sense of humor. I'm generally only offended by genuine cruelty; I'm pretty much the polar opposite of uptight, and can laugh at lots of things many (uptight!) people find offensive. I'm unpretentious, and can and do talk in the same way I'm writing, right now - but generally don't. Outside serious conversation, I'm really very casual - I'm just an average commoner...who also happens to be pretty uncommon, in a lot of ways. And some of them are actually GOOD ways, honest! lol

More About my Match

No. When it comes to matches, 'ideal' is basically a word you can swap accurately with 'dream.' In real life, you won't have every check box with a check mark in it. I've loved not-very-attractive people, not-very-smart people, and all kinds of other things, and the LAST thing I wanna do is put a description in here that might turn someone away who otherwise might have shot me a message. I think it's wiser to just let attraction (in the general sense) determine whether something should continue, and chemistry determine what it should develop into. I'm not looking to limit myself by foolish, arbitrary biases. The only things I can say - keeping it simple - that I genuinely don't want, are: someone obese - some extra padding isn't a big deal; I have about 15lbs to lose, myself, but I just can't manage to be attracted to someone who is a great deal overweight. And it makes sex suck. lol Yes, I know this personally. The other thing is a**hole. I don't like a**hole. (Unless they're between your buttcheeks, then I like them just fine. :P)


A semester of university (I was planning a physics degree), and I found it just too much, too quick. I'm bright, but school's not for me. Also, almost 2 years of furniture and cabinetmaking.


And, no offence to anyone, but 'spiritual,' for me, does not mean I think rocks have "magical" powers. I believe in God, and use "God" because I'm accustomed, but my more apt term would be the Source


What is this focus on occupation all about? Is this, unbeknownst to me, some kind of a clear indicator of compatibility, or something? If my job is important to you, we are NOT compatible.

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