Lafenmom53: Get me out of my head

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I'll add to this as we go...but..

I'm self supporting, self sufficient, but it turns out I don't like being by myself. I'd like to find someone who is willing to take the time to get comfortable with each other.

I'm not looking for someone to 'take care of me' (financially) but I'm sure not someone else's retirement plan LOL. If you think being in debt up to your neck is not a bad thing, you wouldn't like me. If you've spent more money than you've earned all your life and now you're looking down the barrel of retirement and it freaks you out - this is not a reason to get into a relationship.

I'm kind of old school - you should work for what you earn and earn what you get. If it's not yours, don't touch it. If you stand in the middle of the street, you will probably get run over. The world does not owe you a thing so pick yourself up and make your world a better place.

I think people who "trust others until they give me a reason not to" are just plain asking to be conned. I don't trust anyone until I know them well enough to. (ever seen the show 'Catfish'? How can anyone be so naïve?

I don't understand people who have gym memberships but hire someone to mow their lawn and clean their house. I just don't.

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I don't have any preconceived ideas of who you are... I will say I can't deal with people who have personality changes when they drink or any illegal drug use at all.

I like complete honesty, bottom line, give me something I can deal with information. If I feel like I'm being manipulated or 'cheesed' in anyway, I'm gone. That is disrespectful.

Be real in your communications - state who you are and what you want - you'll be surprised how far that gets you. (no, I'm not talking about sex) (really)

Allow yourself to be who you are - it's the only way you'll find someone you're comfortable with, and if that's not me, that's OK. There's someone out there who will fit you perfectly.


I put myself through college and think everyone should pay their own way. I also don't think college should be the ONLY path kids are taught to follow after school - some folks were meant to work with their hands, some weenie out and hit the desk. (W


I don't believe in organized religions - they've caused a lot of harm in the course of human history. I do believe in a spiritual essence that some folks would call God. I think science (evolution) proves creationism - you just have to get used to a


I'm a technical writer.

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