mesnikd: Eclectic and Surrational

You can call me Dandrum
You can call me Dandrum.
  • You can call me Dandrum
  • Photo taken at my favorite hangout Busboys Poets in DC Cup o hot toddy Cheers
  • At Kaldis Social House Silver Spring MD 2019
  • Pic taken at Strawberry Fields John Lennon memorial tribute Central Park
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I'm an aging but still vibrant intellectual and hipster, a frustrated drummer/percussionist interested in music, philosophy, literature, the arts, politics, and current events. Far Left, ideologically, but nonsectarian. I've been called the "last civilized man in America," not the world, mind you, just America, but that's for you to determine. One of my many intellectual interests is exploring realistic and practical alternatives to Capitalism and what I call "American Ennui," or why Americans cannot progress. I tried unsuccessfully in organizing a study group on this topic. Anyone interested, please let me know.

People are dying inside for the one conversation they most need to have. Me too. Not liking the couch potato life; need to get out and be more active, preferably with someone. While I've been told I'm a handsome guy (again, for you to decide), I'll begrudgingly admit to having a midriff bulge, to go along with my midlfe crises---yet it'd be nice to have the support of a woman to support me in needed lifestyle changes. I have flaws, but evolutionary self-improvement is always a noble goal.

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I'm interested in meeting women who are kind, compassionate, discerning, highly intelligent and aware, conversational, witty and lively, secular, and kudos to anyone who is a musician so we can (ahem) make beautiful music together--or at least loves music of all sorts. I'm attracted to creative, insightful, intellectual, life-experienced, caring, and personable wymyn. Two people cannot start out as soulmates, but we can start slowly, surely, and progress from there. Compatibility doesn't necessarily mean complete similarity. Sometimes we are attracted to people who complement us, or show strength in areas we where we have weaknesses. We can strongly disagree on various things and still show mutual respect and honesty. I'm not interested in being competitive: I don't care if you are smarter, more athletic, or "superior" to me in any ways. I am more interested in finding true companionship and a confidante at this stage in life; someone I can learn from and teach; share life experiences with and rely on for emotional support. Age/generation and ethnicity are unimportant.


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