Notmy_Realname: Seeking intelligent life on Earth

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I'm pretty laid back most of the time, and get along with just about anyone who wants to get along with me, but I have no tolerance for liars, thieves, manipulators, or any other toxic type of personality at this point in my life. I enjoy the outdoors, doing my photography, camping, fishing, hunting, boating, riding my motorcycle, etc. I play electric guitar, old school metal head, grew up on things like Metallica, Megadeth, Slayer, but I like a lot of newer bands as well. When it's uncomfortably hot or cold out I am usually a stay at home kinda guy, sitting in front of my computer unless I have company over. I built a 4 seat bar in my basement for when I do have company over, but pretty much all my friends live at least a couple hours away so I spend a lot of time alone. I've been single for a few years now, and just kinda starting to think about getting back into things and finding someone who might actually know the meaning of words like honesty and loyalty, who can appreciate my being there for her enough to be there in return when I need it. Lord knows THAT'S not easy to find these days, but my vacation from relationships has lasted long enough that I'm beginning to miss the little things, so thought I'd take a chance and put together a profile here and see what comes of it.

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Hmmmm... "Ideal" match.... OK, well, It may sounds shallow at first glance but for starters I'm looking for a slender or at least slender-ISH woman, in reasonably fit condition. I spent over a decade with the mother of my son who gained about 100 pounds right after we got together and it resulted in her having health issues as well as placing restrictions on various aspects of our relationship and I just don't want to deal with that again. I prefer younger women, someone truly feminine in her ways, but not high maintenance, a little submissive maybe... I don't care what ethnicity or race. Someone affectionate and supportive, empathy counts for a lot in a woman in my eyes. Someone willing to accept my help when she needs it but who won't take me for granted or take advantage of my nature, someone with some solid common sense who learns from her mistakes instead of making the same ones over and over, year after year, and who won't just run blindly into situations without thinking ahead simply because she thinks I'm going to always be her safety net and fix all the problems that come of it. Someone thrifty, who pays attention to what she spends and knows how to save money. Someone who shares my interests, outdoorsy, likes to fish and can bait her own hooks and unhook her own fish, and maybe even clean her own catch... Someone who likes similar music, and who can enjoy just kicking back at home playing some games with me on the PC or watching movies. Someone who would rather spend a night bank fishing than going out to a club, and who would rather help me put together a home made meal and dine in than go to some crowded restaurant for dinner. I used to cook professionally, so there is nothing on the menu there that we can't make at home for half the price. Someone who would rather make love than f*ck and don't care if my motorcycle is a Harley or not.


I am on full disability, but I do photography on the side, mostly selling fine art prints of wildlife and nature scenes, but I also have been published for a few photo shoots I've done with models for fine art magazines. I spend most of my time hangi

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