SeekingAlone: One alone who is seeking.

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I am easier to approach than you may think.

I've my good points but also have my flaws.

A little absent-minded, easily distracted.
Quite open-minded & adaptable.
Trustworthy & quite reliable.
Relatively easy-going & patient.
Respectful of others & also of self.

I'm one who is equally in touch with his inner child as well as his inner geezer. I can be both sensitive yet stoic. Playful yet serious. Sentimental. A little disorganized at times. A perfectionist.

I consider nothing & nobody to be above or beyond question. I question the way that things are. At the same time I have come to accept that some things are not to be questioned.

I'm a winter person. I appreciate the cooler temperatures & as such I quite dislike living here between June & October. Insects don't help.

My health is okay, but not perfect.

I am currently a moderate gamer. I play PC games. I enjoy tabletop games in general as well as ttrpgs. I appreciate 'geek' & related culture but am not immersed in it. Going to conventions sounds great to me - although leisure travel is nice too.

Other things I like: listening to music, cooking, dreaming, etc.

I also appreciate family & friends & enjoy hanging in or out with them.

Not much of an animal person, nor charitable. However fair.

I have a sense of humour, am reasonably intelligent, am open to possibilities & can be quite affectionate.

I feel that in relationships it is important to establish respect and points of friction sooner rather than later. To build trust & to decide early if we want to continue. Honesty & fearlessness help. I like to talk through & come to reasonable arrangements concerning any differences in opinion or habits that may impact day to day life - and even if we should come across a hard no, such as smoking or dogs, it is better to cross that bridge sooner. Would you not agree? ^_^

Fancy a chat & maybe a hot beverage date? ^_^

More About my Match

Approach me with sincerity & you will be fine & may even be surprised.

Aspects 'not' important to me in a potential match:
- Your financial or work/job standing
- Your appearance & fashion sense (I don't wear makeup or force my feet into awkward footwear and I don't expect you to either)

Aspects 'more' important to me:
- Compatible interests (at least one or two)
- Being open to opening up (Being vulnerable with each other can be scary but can lead to a better life together)
- Being trustworthy (Being a person whom one can be safe to be vulnerable with.)


- A healthy outlook on love & exclusivity (I feel it important that a prospective partner see my love as one would see the sun. Not for bottling up & closing away in a closet for one's perusal, but for openly enjoying & basking in. She'd be fine with me also being my best self with my family or friends as she'd know that this love isn't taken away from her & that my ways of expressing love to her will both similar but also different.

I also desire for any relationship where we can build a life together without suppressing the things that we appreciate about ourselves. We can together decide how much or little overlap our interests have - & what portion of our days we want to be "stuck" with each other. ^_~

On a more basic level, the following are desirable:

You speak your thoughts freely and value the opinions of yourself & others.
You are of sound but not restrictive moral standing. Open minded perhaps.
You might be religious but do not expect the same of me.
You put yourself first but your near & dear not far behind.
You value stability but you also value exploration &/or experimentation.
You are a non-smoker & aren't interested in having a dog

Bonus points:

Fluent English.
Liking games.
Creativity &/or ambition.
Appreciating fantasy/ sci-fi/ comedy/ anime/ 80s music.
Interest in bedroom activities.

Get in touch. Let's chat & maybe meet up for a drink or such ^_^


I'm Maltese. :P You may or may not be Maltese. Mostly 'not' looking to relocate but may consider colocation (very preferably within the same continent for logistical reasons).


I have somewhat of an education. Actually education as we know it is an area that I have grown skeptical of, as I feel that that we can do better than occupy young minds with bulk-near-irrelevancies.


Over the years I came up with my own set of beliefs (raised catholic). I won't trouble you with this however. I am not religious but am principled. I will respect your beliefs but may not partake.


Customer care in a clerical/ ICT environment.

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