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A little absent-minded, easily distracted.
Quite open-minded and adaptable.
Trustworthy and quite reliable.
Relatively easy-going and patient.
Respectful of others and also of self.

I have my good points but can be quite complicated, and also have some flaws with which I shall now proceed to try & frighten you away. ;)

I am one who is equally in touch with his inner child as well as his inner geezer. I can be both sensitive yet stoic. Playful yet serious.

I am sentimental. Can be a bit of a pack-rat & even disorganized at times. Yet I am also a perfectionist.

I consider nothing & nobody to be above or beyond question. I question the way that things are. At the same time I have come to accept that good things are not to be questioned.

I am a winter person. I appreciate the cooler temperatures & as such I quite dislike living here between June & October. Insects are also my bane & so all the more so.

While my health is fairly good - I do have a number of smaller health issues. Such is best discussed in private.

I am currently a light gamer but used to be a heavier gamer. I play PC games. I play tabletop board and card games. I also roleplay with a group (on a break due to the virus). I appreciate 'geek' & related culture. Comics & anime can be cool too. Going to conventions sounds great to me - although simpler travel is nice too.

Other things I like include listening to music, cooking, dreaming, etc.

I also appreciate my family & friends & enjoy hanging in or out with them. Of this (and, to a lesser degree, my interests) I'm highly protective of due to a past unpleasant experience.

Not much of an animal person, nor charitable.

I have a sense of humour, am reasonably intelligent & can be quite affectionate - but not pushy. Very patient & restrained, in fact.

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Approach me with sincerity and you will be fine and may even be surprised.

As for my ideal match - I'll presume that you are interested in exploring a potential life-long, intimate relationship with me.

In that case the main important things would be that you would be a female who is not presently attached and who is preferably not far off from my age. A non-smoker too.

You would understand that any love that we would (hopefully) develop for each other would in no way be threatened by the love that we have for our families, friends or even, for a lack of a better way of putting it, our passions.

As a couple, the 'you' & 'me' would not be smothered beneath the 'we'. One challenge that I'd hope that you would help us to tackle is how to build a life together without much suppressing the things that we appreciate individually. The greater the overlap in our interests, the better but little overlap is necessary.

On a more basic level, the following are desirable:

You are a non-smoker.
You speak your thoughts freely.
You listen and think with an open mind.
You value the opinions of yourself and others.
You are of sound but not restrictive moral standing.
You put yourself first but your partner not far behind.
You might be religious but do not expect the same of me.
You value stability but you also value exploration and/or experimentation.

Bonus points:

Your English is fluent.
You are creative &/or ambitious.
You appreciate fantasy/ sci-fi/ comedy/ anime/ 80s music.
You are potentially interested in me fathering a child or more with you.
You enjoy games - better if the kind of games where more than one person can play.


On the other hand, do you wish to simply befriend me?

For the purpose of exploring developing a real friendship, gender and age are of little importance.

The list of desirables mentioned earlier kind of applies here too - but the most important thing is that we simply have common ground/ interests


I'm Maltese. :P You may or may not be Maltese. Mostly 'not' looking to relocate but may consider colocation (very preferably within the same continent for logistical reasons).


I have somewhat of an education. Actually education as we know it is an area that I have grown skeptical of, as I feel that that we can do better than occupy young minds with bulk-near-irrelevancies.


Over the years I came up with my own set of beliefs (raised catholic). I won't trouble you with this however. I am not religious but am principled. I will respect your beliefs but may not partake.


Helping people to use an online product, as well as other stuff. For as long as they're a customer and for as long as I care - they get served. Its a stable gig. I would be happy to elaborate further.

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