SeekingAlone: One who is alone and seeking.

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I am easier to approach than you may think.

A little absent-minded, easily distracted.
Quite open-minded and adaptable.
Trustworthy and quite reliable.
Relatively easy-going and patient.
Respectful of others and also of self.

I have my good points but can be quite complicated, and also have my flaws.

I am one who is equally in touch with his inner child as well as his inner geezer. I can be both sensitive yet stoic. Playful yet serious.

I am sentimental. Can be a bit of a pack-rat & even disorganized at times. Also a bit of a perfectionist.

I consider nothing & nobody to be above or beyond question. I question the way that things are. At the same time I have come to accept that good things are not to be questioned.

I am a winter person. I appreciate the cooler temperatures & as such I quite dislike living here between June & October. Insects are also my bane & so all the more so.

While my health is fairly good it is not perfect.

I am currently a light gamer but used to be a heavier gamer. I play PC games. I enjoy tabletop games in general as well as ttrpgs. I appreciate 'geek' & related culture but am not immersed in it. Going to conventions sounds great to me - although leisure travel is nice too.

Other things I like include listening to music, cooking, dreaming, etc.

I also appreciate family & friends & enjoy hanging in or out with them.

Not much of an animal person, nor charitable.However fair.

I have a sense of humour, am reasonably intelligent, am open to possibilities & can be quite affectionate - but not pushy. Very patient & restrained, in fact. Emotional or psychological abuse are a 'no' from me.

More About my Match

Approach me with sincerity and you will be fine and may even be surprised.

As for my ideal match - I'll presume that you are interested in exploring a potential life-long, intimate relationship with me.

In that case the main important things would be that you would be a female who is not presently attached or otherwise engaged in a current relationship. A non-smoker too.

You would understand that any love that we would (hopefully) develop for each other would in no way be threatened by the love that we have for our families, friends or even, for a lack of a better way of putting it, our passions (again, specified due to a past experience).

As a couple, the 'you' & 'me' would not be smothered beneath the 'we'. One challenge that I'd hope that you would help us to tackle is how to build a life together without much suppressing the things that we appreciate individually. The greater the overlap in our interests the better, but little overlap is necessary as a little can go a long way.

On a more basic level, the following are desirable:

You are a non-smoker.
You speak your thoughts freely.
You listen and think with an open mind.
You value the opinions of yourself and others.
You are of sound but not restrictive moral standing.
You might be religious but do not expect the same of me.
You put yourself first but your near and dear not far behind.
You value stability but you also value exploration and/or experimentation.

Bonus points:

Your English is fluent.
You enjoy games in general.
You are creative &/or ambitious.
You are not set on animal ownership.
You appreciate fantasy/ sci-fi/ comedy/ anime/ 80s music.
You have an interest in bedroom activities. Kinks a plus but optional.

No matter how much information I place here, it will never enough to ensure that a visitor (such as yourself) gets a full picture. I would suggest that if you are even curious then it won't hurt to get in touch with me.Let us have a chat.


I'm Maltese. :P You may or may not be Maltese. Mostly 'not' looking to relocate but may consider colocation (very preferably within the same continent for logistical reasons).


I have somewhat of an education. Actually education as we know it is an area that I have grown skeptical of, as I feel that that we can do better than occupy young minds with bulk-near-irrelevancies.


Over the years I came up with my own set of beliefs (raised catholic). I won't trouble you with this however. I am not religious but am principled. I will respect your beliefs but may not partake.


Customer care in a clerical/ ICT environment.

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