stuarth43: aventurer looking for an adventuress, will travel, this pic is 4 years ago, I'll upload a new one

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people say, I'm kind, witty, hard working and fun to be with
honest, sorry have not written much here, closed the account, because I thought, I'd made a good contact, but it was a fake I.D
Ask me whatever you wish
I have traveled a lot, 56 lands but never in Asia or South America or Africa , so many places, cultures to explore
Here is how I see two people

As we get older, we have become more idealistic, more set in our ways perhaps, although there are many enlightening things still to discover and growth never stops does it?

So when we look for Him or for Her, the field has become much narrower, because we know what we want, we know that he or she should add to and never disrupt our lives

How do you define being in love or really loving a person?

For me it is a great developing anguish when she does not come home, it is late and the roads are wet and I have heard nothing and then the car comes and there is this overwhelming relief

Or she is by the kitchen sink, looking tired and I look at her with love and fondness

Once I was building my first boat, in the house paddock of the family home , NZ

And I was sitting on the deck crying and my mother came by and asked what was the matter and I said,”-you mum, one day you will be gone--

She was 60 then It is when I really knew I loved them

To me love is when she says

She says, --"hey I am off with my friends for a few days"--

And I say, just come home safe, enjoy

And I want to go fishing or wherever and she says, see you when I see you Stay safe stay in touch, in saying that I do not actually do this so often

Love is giving the other freedom, never trying to own, deny, hold

Two people are together because they want to be. They are independent, their own person

They can lean on the other and they can give their whole with every fibre.

They can be as one, well at least that is what I believe even though I have never experienced this

More about my Match

she'll be honest, kind, fun , intelligent, ready smile and have left her bad times behind
I would prefer that she is financially secure, I am exceedingly generous, but being able to help upon our travels is essential, I guess what I am saying, is, that I do not want to pay for everything
AS for me, I am financially secure, as long as the Markets do not collapse,


RETIRED YACHT BUILDER, So building other things, I prefer gray to dyed hair

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