Discovering a new world
  • 49 yr-old man seeking woman, 30-50
  • Herford, Nordrhein-Westfalen, Germany, Western Europe
  • Jan 31
  • 5' 10"  (178 cm)
  • Average
  • Dark Brown
  • Brown
  • White/Caucasian
  • Masters Degree
  • Spiritual but not religious
  • Technical / Science / Engineering
  • ---
  • Never
  • Occasionally
  • Separated
  • No
  • Probably Not
  • Cancer Cancer

Match Details

  • Woman | 30-50 yrs
  • Friends/Hang Out

More About Me

Relationships are how those are. People have expectations and/or aspirations. And they do their best. Sometimes with no success, other times with great joy. We are all humans.

A good starting point to know each other may be to comment, discover and understand together the quotes below.

"TO COMMUNICATE with one another, even if we know each other very well, is extremely difficult. I may use words that may have to you a significance different from mine. Understanding comes when we, you and I, meet on the same level at the same time. That happens only when there is real affection between people, between husband and wife, between intimate fiends. That is real communion. Instantaneous understanding comes when we meet on the same level at the same time."

Jiddu Krishnamurti

More about my Match

No ideal match. Such thing does not exist. No need to search for it.

"Love is not a sentiment, not romanticism, not dependent on something, and that state is extremely arduous and difficult to understand, or to be in—because our minds are always interfering, limiting, encroaching upon its functioning. Therefore it is important to understand first the mind and its ways; otherwise we shall be caught in illusions, caught in words and sensations that have very little significance.”

“Love is something totally new every day, but pleasure is not, pleasure has continuity. Love is always new, and therefore it is its own eternity.”

“So as long as the mind is comparing, there is no love, and the mind is always judging, comparing, weighing, looking to find out where the weakness is. So where there is comparison, there is no love.”

Jiddu Krishnamurti, On Love and Loneliness


There are no borders for souls or spirits. Borders related to geographical area, skin color, religions are artificial. Life is in progres changing rules all the time. To be theirself is the goal of the human beings during time and space.


Chemistry process engineering.


I find that real spirituality has nothing to do with "copy-paste" from books. To be spiritual means to find out a way to be, and remain yourself.


very interesting. What I have learned is use full in each days life.

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