Takeaguess: Looking for an Intimate LTR

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Don't really know how to set this up without coming across as either being boastful or self-deprecating, but I'll give it a try. I'm a strong, tough, athletic, highly intelligent and creative individual with numerous varied hobbies and interests (including reading and writing fiction, graphic design, sci-tech, drawing, mixed martial arts, football, athletics, extreme sports and community work). But I know that doesn't count for much.

I'm also a kind and caring person by nature- I've got so much love to give. When, if, I find a woman who can bring herself to love me, I'd want to be the most romantic, passionate and affectionate guy I could be for her, and even more so for any children we had together. I'm a family man- you can always depend on me to be there for those who I hold dear. But don't take that as weakness, or read me as some sort of super-sensitive 'soft touch' or pushover. Because I'm not. I take my responsibilities extremely seriously- I've always stood firm, staunch and resolute, standing by my principles, values and decisions no matter what, honoring every debt I've owed to anyone, and fighting to do the right thing even when no-one else would, regardless of what the risks were, or the heavy prices which I've had to pay for doing the right thing. I've endured setback after setback, fought my way through it all. But I've never given up, never stopped fighting. The way I see it, while I can tell you what I'm like and what I do, there's not really any way that you can truly express to anyone who you truly are in words. To find out who a person really is, you have to really find out about them, first-hand, in the real world. I want to get to know you. Do you think you might be willing to get to know me?

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I want to be loved- I'm looking for someone genuine, with a kind and gentle heart. Someone who can actually appreciate it when a guy loves her and cares about her with all his heart and soul, and who could possibly bring herself to love that guy in return. I know- it's corny, sentimental, and totally unrealistic, right? But some dreams- love, intimacy- are worth clinging onto. So many people now have this mentality that intimacy is just sex and nothing else. But I'd still ideally like my first proper partner to be my last and only partner, no matter how unrealistic it may be. I want to find my first and last, one and only true love. Ideally, I'd want to be her first and last as well, her one and only. In my eyes, intimacy is much, much more than just sex- intimacy is understanding, love, affection, passion itself. And if there's no intimacy, then I'm not going to stick around to keep pushing the issue, showering a woman with gifts and pleading with her to love me back. I'll simply walk away.

No-strings-attached, nothing-but-sex, without any intimacy, sounds like just about the least attractive prospective relationship imaginable to me. And a religious absolutist 'total commitment for the rest of your life first, or you don't even get to see what I look like under my face-veil' relationship (the kind that my parents have been trying to pressure me into since I turned 18) doesn't sound any more attractive than that- physical intimacy may not be as important as emotional intimacy, but it definitely matters. So, she'd be the kind of girl who'd be willing to get intimate with me in more ways than one. And admittedly, she'd also ideally be smart, beautiful, well-educated and well-off. But it's the intimate details which really matter, not the materialistic preferences. Wouldn't you agree?


East Indian (Punjabi) meets West Indian (Afro-Caribbean). With a bit of Portuguese added to the spicy fusion mix as well, a couple of generations back, with my great-grandmother on my mum's side. Have a taste- you might like it.


1st, Creative Writing and English Literature


At present, it's not a job so much as it is a pastime.

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