val_corliss69 - INTJ Personality

My Details

  • I am
    49 yr-old man seeking woman, 30-55
  • Located in
    San Marcos, California, USA
  • Last online
    11 hrs ago
  • Height
    6' 0"  (183 cm)
  • Body Type
  • Hair Color
    Medium Brown
  • Eye Color
  • Ethnicity
    Mixed Race
  • Education
    High School
  • Religion
  • Occupation
    Manufacturing & Production
  • Income
    $25,000 to $50,000
  • Smokes
  • Drinks
  • Marital Status
    Never Married
  • Has kids
  • Wants kids
    No, but welcome yours
  • Sign
    Aquarius Aquarius

Match Details

  • Seeking
    Woman | 30-55 yrs
  • For
    Activity Partner

More About Me

Personal relationships, particularly romantic ones, may be described as my Achilles heel. While capable of caring deeply for others (usually a select few), and willing to spend a great deal of time and effort on a relationship, my knowledge and self-confidence that makes me so successful in other areas can suddenly abandon or mislead me in interpersonal situations.

This happens in part because I do not readily grasp the social rituals; for instance, I tend to have little patience and less understanding of such things as small talk and flirtation (which most types consider half the fun of a relationship). To complicate matters, I am usually extremely private and can often be naturally impassive as well, which makes me easy to misread and misunderstand. Perhaps the most fundamental problem, however, is that I really want people to make sense. :-) This sometimes results in a peculiar naivete', in that I will expect inexhaustible reasonability and directness.

Probably my strongest asset in the interpersonal area would be my intuitive abilities and willingness to "work at" a relationship as I tend to synthesize the probable meanings behind such things as tone of voice, turn of phrase, and facial expression. These abilities are honed and directed by consistent, repeated efforts to understand and support those I care about, and those relationships which ultimately do become established tend to be characterized by their robustness, stability, and good communications.

More about my Match

An idea person. One who strives for constant growth in relationships. One who takes their commitments seriously, but are open to redefining their vows, if one sees something which may prove to be an improvement over the existing understanding. One who is not likely to be "touchy-feely" and overly affirming with their partner. However, An intelligent individual who strives to always be their best, and be moving in a positive direction. If one applies these basic goals to their personal relationships, one is likely to enjoy happy and healthy interaction with their families and friends.


African, Native American, as far as one knows.




Taking customer documentation to determine items required, assembling custom orders, aiding in processing orders, sorting merchandise, maintaining supplies, verifying inventory, and processing return materials authorizations (RMAs).

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