Newly single so please be gentle with me.
I am intricate like a diamond. There are many sides & perspectives on how I relate to the world & people in it. I am unique & unlike others, you have met. Getting to know me only highlights & explains who I am better.. I'm hard to handle(sometimes lol) but easy to get along with... get to know me & ill get to know you... Fun, outgoing, loving, truthful, funny, hard-working, trusting, passioned, brave, good listener, there to lend a hand, willing to forgive, happy, family-oriented, dedicated to all I do, dreamer, feet firmly on the ground, problem solver, animal lover, friendly & most definitely a flirt. I Have 3 cats.
Turn-ons 1. Being flirtatious 2. Offering praise and adoration 3. Reinforcing interest with physical contact 4. Promoting creative and fun activities 5. Accepting some playful teasing, joking, "comic relief" 6. Poetry 7. Being Romanced
TURN-OFFS: 1. Being Ignored 2. Controlling my schedules / Consuming all my time 3. Being too serious or sober in criticism 4. Being unforgiving/not understanding 5. Expecting me to dwell on problems 6. Selfishness 7. Rudeness Just to name a few
I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOKUP.
I DO NOT DO ONE NIGHT STANDS EVER.
TO be honest I dunno what my ideal match it anymore. I know he has to be kind and loving. Must like cats, heck animals in general. Not afraid of public displays of affection. Attentive to my needs but not overly clingy. I am very independent and don't need a man for things like changing a car tire, engine belt or oil my dad tough me that. Id like a strong man that can help me with lifting. Someone who can embrace my chaos along with my unique organizational skills. One thing I feel I need to say that makes me sad that I have to say is the guy that would be interested in me needs to have reliable transportation IE a driver's license and a car/truck. I am nowhere near shallow but I have had relationships in the past where the only way I would get to see my bf is if I went to them and they made ZERO effort to come to me. I don't believe relationships are always 50/50 because some times one partner may need more support at different times in the relationship. but some things like making an effort are always 50/50. One thing is for sure I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOKUP. I DO NOT DO ONE NIGHT STANDS EVER. If all that is confusing let me say it in one sentence. I am looking for friends with POSIBLE benefits later.
We can talk about this part later once we have gotten to know each other a little more.