Wingman6617: SWEETER THE SECOND TIME AROUND?
My Details
- I am: 73 yr-old man seeking woman, 57-70
- Located in: New Dundee, Ontario, Canada
- Last online: Online over 1 month
- Height: 5' 6" (168 cm)
- Body Type: Average
- Hair Color: Black
- Eye Color: Hazel
- Ethnicity: Asian
- Education: Masters Degree
- Religion: Christian/Other
- Occupation: Retired
- Income: ---
- Smokes: Never
- Drinks: Socially
- Marital Status: Divorced
- Has kids: Yes, they don't live with me
- Wants kids: No, been there-done that
- Sign:
Aquarius
More About Me
What is the main ingredient that makes for a good match? Expectations. It's not a question of how good we look, how financially well off we are or how many times we've failed at love. Our expectations of one another is the key. Different people look at love in different perspectives. As a man, If I love a woman, that's all that really matters. Women think more emotionally. They delve into compatibility, interests, romance, looks, health and a myriad of values that I can't even begin to list. This often becomes overwhelming to men and many just give up trying. If we concentrate on the bad stuff, we'll find it at every turn. The more flexible we are, the more possibilities we'll have. The more ridged we are, the smaller the window. We need to look outside the box and step out of our comfort zone or we'll miss meeting some amazing people. We often say that we won't settle. But in reality we always do. We've settled many times in our lives for people whom we thought were " the one " only to land back on dating sites for another spin of the wheel. But such is life. We don't always get what we want. We get what we can negotiate for and to me, that's the crux of the search. Time, patience, the ability to look at failure as a lesson learnt are all essential to finding love. We may even find something that resembles happiness for who knows? She may walk through that door tomorrow or never. It all boils down to expectations.
More About my Match
My lady of choice would be someone who has all the core values as a human being. I think we all know what they are. Ideally someone progressive in thought and actions, who understands that we all have choices in life and who would allow us to make those choices that benefit both. Someone who has her own life independent of mine and who shares some of my interests and possibly bring some of her own into the relationship. Above all, a woman who can stand tall in the face of adversity, who understands what a relationship entails and is willing to do whatever is necessary to maintain that relationship. She will undoubtedly receive the same privileges from me.
Ethnicity
Home grown of Chinese ancestry. Totally westernized with over 26 years of marriage to a Caucasian woman.
Education
Obtained my Master's degree in Clinical Psychology from Ohio State University circa 1975 and worked for five years in the field before returning to Canada to start a second, more satisfying career.
Religion
Baptized Presbyterian but not a practicing Christian. Spiritual instead of Religious.
Occupation
I used to own a furniture design and manufacturing business in Kitchener/Waterloo which I ran for over 20 years. It was sold in 2012 when I went into early retirement
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