zenmasterE: seeking by not-seeking

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Nice, friendly person but sometimes not very talkative unless we're talking about some of my fav things or an interesting topic. Good listener. I'm not a social animal even though I am not as shy as I used to be. I have self-diagnosed my personality type as INFP.

'INFP (introversion, intuition, feeling, perception) is a four-letter abbreviation for one of the 16 personality types identified by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. People with this kind of personality tend to be introverted, idealistic, creative and driven by high values.' Well, I don't know how creative I am compared to some highly creative people but everything else fits. I am not hugely into Zodiacal signs but I am a Virgo and some of the personality traits of a Virgo do fit me, the good and the bad traits. I am not perfect even though I like to think I am, which I think sums up Virgo quite nicely.

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Someone like me! But not a carbon copy of opposite gender. Someone who is kind, patient, has a sense of humour, is intelligent and who shares my values. Someone who will overlook my wee bank balance (hopefully this will not always be the case but being a 'poor artist' or artist-wannabe to be more accurate, it might be!).

The goal is marriage - yes, but am open to friendship, and chatting, pen pals - platonic stuff. Women further from my age (I specified 21-49) I expect only to have (hopefully) friendly discussions with and probably nothing more, since, if I'm correct in my calculations, gals would rather date guys or be romantically involved with guys within 5 years of their own age, by and large.

I believe that a beautiful woman is like a jewel but that a good woman is a treasure. If you're a highly attractive woman but you're haughty I will not be interested but would rather engage someone less attractive who has a kind heart. Unfortunately, I am a male and physical attractiveness does mean a lot to me as it does to any hot-blooded male, so you don't need to be incredibly attractive but yeah, I want something nice to look at. But this above all: you must be kind.


Completed majors in Psychology and Religious Studies (Mahayana Buddhism + New Religious movements)...about a million years ago.


I dig Zen Buddhism among other things.


I write poetry and hope to learn sculpting at some point in the future. I like amateur photography. Basically unemployed since 1997.

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