Can Women Be Funny?

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category: Humor
Male comedians grossly outnumber their female counterparts. So, is there a genetic predisposition, which determines that women are less amusing than men? Or, is there a section of society which remains discomforted by funny women? Why, in terms of comedy, are women still a minority group?

There is certainly no shortage of talented and witty women, Whoopi Goldberg, Ellen Degeneres, Sarah Silverman, Tina Fey, Joan Rivers, Jennifer Saunders, Tracey Ullman, and Wanda Sykes, to name but a few. So, it would seem that the second X chromosome does not preclude women from the ability to make people laugh. Despite the fact that there is no shortage of ‘female funny’, comedy is still very much a male dominated world. In fact, there remains a staunch view that women are simply not as funny as men.

Stand-up comedy, more than any other form of the genre, is very much a man’s world. For example, in the twenty one years of the Edinburgh Festival’s ‘So you think you’re funny?’ competition there has only ever been one female winner (Rhona Cameron). If you have ever been to a comedy club you will notice the distinct lack of estrogen on stage. This may well have more to do with the confidence necessary to perform stand-up comedy, than a lack of ability. It clearly requires a lot of brass to get up on stage, in front of a group of people, who have probably had too much to drink, and try to make them laugh. The fact is that women are notoriously more self-conscious than men, and this may well be a contributing factor in the lack of female stand-up comics.

The other hurdle that female comedians seem to face is public perception. If asked, most men would say that they would not want their wives, or girlfriends, to be funnier than them. This is not to suggest that all men hold this opinion, but it is a universal truth that the male ego is still alive and well. It could be said that a lot of female comics compromise their femininity somewhat, to compensate for this fact. After all, if a man sees a woman as a feminine being, he isn’t necessarily listening to what she’s saying. So, it’s little wonder that many female stand-up comedians attempt to de-sexualise themselves, in order to be heard.

On the other side of public perception, female comedians have to tackle the members of their own sex. There are some women who may feel intimidated by a confident, witty, woman. One way for a female comedian to get these women on their side is to tell jokes about men. The only problem is that by doing that a female comic immediately ostracizes the male members of an audience. There is clearly a catch twenty two situation here, which just is not present for a male comedian.

This isn’t simply another chapter in the battle of the sexes. The issues surrounding the perception of female comedians say a lot about our society. They suggest what is perhaps obvious, that we are still far from an age of sexual equality. All comedians have their fans and their detractors, this is no surprise. What is shocking, however, is that often the detractors of female comedians do not merely express their dislike of the material. Read, or listen to, any debate about female comedians and you will notice that the comments get extremely personal and offensive. Often women are derided for their looks, or their sexuality. There is an aggression present which is incomprehensible and seems to have nothing to do with a female comic’s talent. With all this up against them, it is not difficult to see why so few women choose to take up the profession.
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Comments


JustLittleMe Dublin, Wicklow Ireland
Fri Mar 27, 2009 9:16 AM CST
applause applause applause Here here
ahheee hamburg, Hamburg Germany
Sun Mar 29, 2009 9:24 AM CST
OK I see where you're coming from but the question of women being funny is not the same as why more women aren't comediennes. You covered that well but the question of can women be funny is broader than that. The truth of the matter is that men love funny women. Peruse the men's ads on this site and you will see that the woman they all seem to want is the same: kind, intelligent, loyal and with a sense of humour. When I'm not typing long diatribes in the forums ;), I am quite funny and men always seem charmed by it. But this goes beyond our current times and back into history. The great courtesans, to whom men paid unreasonable sums of money for the pleasure of their company, were almost invariably quite witty. There are examples of unfunny ones but they tend to have been supplanted by a funnier woman eventually. And courtesanry is not just about sex but often women were desired just for their charming company. There is certainly no historical presidence for women having less of a sense of humour or being less funny than men.

It is my opinion, however, that women hold themselves back in order to stay "beneath" the man. This goes for humour as well. There is also the perception that the male ego cannot handle being teased and this is true of a very few and very unworthwhile men. Mainly, men seem to like powerful women: bright, educated, funny, alive. And they may be attracted to a somewhat attractive woman without these things but I think this is short-lived. For those women who are not funny, I believe it is women's *perception* of men - and of what women "should" be - that holds them back. :D
solsticemoon alicante...javea, Valenciana Spain
Tue Mar 31, 2009 6:41 PM CST
No matter what men might say I believe they are threatened by a funny woman..yes they may like it for a short time but they become somewhat limited in their ability to laugh at themselves..and lets face it women have an uncanny knack of cutting to the chase..whilst we can and do laugh at ourselves its a rare man that can...
_Peet_60 Pretoria, Centurion South Africa
Mon Apr 20, 2009 5:21 PM CST
Perhaps South Africa could help put it straight... confused

Why do you think we got Pieter Dirk Uys - going out as and doing comedy as "Evita Bezuidenhout", this could correct for some shortfalls.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Thu Apr 30, 2009 7:15 PM CST
Sorry but women are just not funny. They laugh when someone gets hurt, to me that's a turnoff.
GreenTassels Zürich, Zrich Switzerland
Wed May 6, 2009 11:44 AM CST
I agree with Ahee there, I think its a different story if women are funny, or if they are comedians..

And most men do say that they want a funny woman.. but my experience is that if you are funny, say in public, is that the odd male will cringe and want you to stop..

I think a lot of men who express that they want their woman to have a sense of humour, is actually that they want them to laugh at their jokes.. courtesans included..

No, I totally agree with this article, that a woman is permitted to be witty, but not actually raucusly funny, or she will alienate either the men or the women.. depending on her angle. So Comedien/ne is just another job afffected by sexual prejudice/oppression.
Emirsee Puerto Ordaz, Bolivar Venezuela
Mon May 18, 2009 11:46 AM CST
oh yes,meeeee!!!
huhanna napier, Hawkes Bay New Zealand
Thu Jul 2, 2009 2:18 AM CST
i've just talked to my 22 year old son about this. . . hes at university and knows quite a few funny women . . he says he thinks they're great and loves spending time with them but says he just doesnt feel attracted to them . . even when they're hot.

to be funny and witty takes intelligence . . men dont like women to be more intelligent than they are . . most women understand this on some level.

without blaming mothers . . do mothers teach their daughters to hold themselves back . . while sons are encouraged to be loud and push themselves forward?

i've noticed that a lot of funny, witty, women that i know personally as well as women who make a living from comedy have gone to single sex schools, especially catholic schools run by nuns.

and as for men who want a women with a 'gsoh' . . i get the impression they want an audience, someone who will laugh at their jokes rather than the other way around.
spiceonian Port Orange, Florida USA
Thu Jul 2, 2009 3:12 PM CST
Good article...Here's my view, female humor is more subtle and sophisticated than male humor. Stooping to toilet humor, ethnic slurs, vulgar or foul language or berrating their spouses for a laugh takes away from a lady's spirit. As mentioned in others' comments, women, for the most part, are quite witty and enjoy a good laugh, but ours is the joy and silliness of everyday life. Take Lucille Ball and Carol Burnett, for instance. Their humor is classic and clean. Bill Cosby is the last American male comedian whose humor is full of joy and timeless. Thanks - S
TTraveller Doha Qatar
Wed Aug 5, 2009 1:11 AM CST
Women aren't funny. They can be humorous and witty and tremendously intelligent, but they aren't funny. Even the women you know who are truly funny are kind of manish... Look at your list.

Dads say and do things Moms will never get away with. That is just the nature of the beast.

And who broke the code that a "woman with a good sense of humor" means the guy wants an appreciative audience.
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