star30 Blog Post: Sun Nov 15, 2009 6:42 AM CST

star30 oc, California USA
Posted:Sun Nov 15, 2009 6:42 AM CST

love

Remember there is no failure in love, because once you tell somebody whom you love, that you love him/her, then you have already succeeded in love.




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lonelyrk westville, Illinois USA
Sun Nov 15, 2009 6:47 AM CST
so true wave
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Goldenlady London, Surrey, England UK
Sun Nov 15, 2009 7:39 AM CST
So when your marriage fails after 20+ years, that feeling of 'having your legs cut off', of loss, anger and despair, isn't really a feeling of failure? It sure felt like failure to me.

When you tell someone you love them, then all you've succeeded in doing is falling in love. After that, keeping love alive is where the challenge is.
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Humbled kenner, Louisiana USA
Sun Nov 15, 2009 8:59 AM CST
That may be true in the real world but from my last experience the momment i said the "L" world everything went to hell,

2 years of my world was given to this and it all came crashing down due to her politics and being self centered,("Its all about me") syndrome and too hell with the rest,

It may not be the same the next time but this I know-it was hard and very difficult and my world is still in shambles,its getting better but the "L" word will not be said,its too exspensive and very emotionaly draining

Another words its not worth the loss,sleepless nights,anger,bitterness,but the only one to blame is me,i shouldnt have ever let it happen.

As i said it has been a year now and i still think of her,it will be awhile i think before im ready to try again.

Thats why i say im "Humbled.
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maxmate Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Mon Nov 16, 2009 12:16 AM CST
loving someone makes you week. Being loved makes you stronger.
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maxmate Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Mon Nov 16, 2009 12:16 AM CST
weak I meant! oops!
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Kasih Jakarta Indonesia
Mon Nov 16, 2009 3:37 AM CST
Some people allergic in saying the love word. . .
But thats not me ! I would tell my love just how much i love him and how much he meant to me.
Even an unreturned love has it own rainbow.
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sultryash Bridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados
Mon Nov 16, 2009 5:30 AM CST
Kasih ...Not because someone doesn't say the "L" word means that they don't love you ...but i have to disagree with you .....unrequited love is a very painful thing to deal with.

My thing is ......no matter how much i may love someone if that person don't feel the same then i rather they not say at all ......wine
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GreenGreen singapore Singapore
Mon Nov 16, 2009 10:30 AM CST
confused

If a guy said " love " to many women? does he has great succeded in love?

Very hard for me to say " love " to someone as love can change real fast. I only believe " love " comes from heart, come from your action and come from caring to show " love " but not speak out so easily.
Unless I really think he is worth for me to " love' then maybe I would.

What is Love? I confuse.

A man who drug and told his woman if she loves him then she has to accept his hobby to let him smoke the pot. However the woman told him If he loves her he has to quit the pot to show his love as she care of his health.

At the end, they divorced because they both never wanted to give into eachother. So what is love? exactly who has to give into who?
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ginabeana89 scottsdale, Arizona USA
Mon Nov 16, 2009 2:42 PM CST
I can't wait to experience real love one day.
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star30 oc, California USA
Mon Nov 16, 2009 4:27 PM CST
Thanks for all your points guys. They are all valid and very thoughtful. I just read that saying from somewhere and thought I would copy and paste it here to see what responses I got. Because when I read it, and thought about the concept of love for days. Don't ask, maybe I just have too much time with my hands. lol cheers
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1234567 JEDDAH Saudi Arabia
Mon Nov 16, 2009 6:41 PM CST
lady,finding true love online is rare but not impossible,actually i dont believe in internet dating,but no problem to try,who knows,it may work out!!!!!!dancing dancing

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