mjames: its sad that people are so lazy socially; I mean if the person of their dreams doesn't walk up to their doorstep with pizza and beer, they throw up their hands and say o.k., how do you do it.
You get out there and be social like everyone else; you meet people with like hobbies and character and you socialize and get to know them.
kind of sad
Yes, thats true... sometimes being part of a club - an atmosphere that you are comfortable in, can lead to great friendships.