Alot of the men out there are shallow minded and just after one thing. There are quite a few however, that are out to make new friends and meet people.....and whatever else comes after that !
I would say the men that are after one thing, only have time for one thing, and that is to see how many new singles profiles there are.
Maybe it all just comes down to each individual. I know friends of mine, and they're only interested in one thing....it's over all the movies these days too....it seems to be the accepted thing to just sleep with whoever you please.
On the other hand, you get the people who are just genuinely out there to meet people, make a friend or two and enjoy the company.
I do have a tendency to babble and try and get a point accross that doesn't always come across, so I hope you get something out of this