@rick4911 --- You are right---some women are users/narcissistic/controlling.
Most men though are masculine/confident enough though---NOT TO STAND FOR IT. Most women are more gentle, and more easily stepped on. It is our (feminine) nature to please. A man's nature, and tradition, usually keep men from being affected as badly by this behavior. Yes it happens--but less often, don't you think?
@g33kgurl: Thanks---that gave me a big smile---but the reason it sounds like I know something is because I am SCARED of people 'duping' me, so I'm trying really hard to compile a SOLID list of things to look out for.
People can be so wonderful, and they can be so awful too.
By the way, you are very beautiful, hope somebody deserving catches you.
So happy you are no longer with the manipulator! To keep it from happening again---watch things carefully. It is very hard to visualize/recognize when a partner is treating you wrong if it is not physical. If someone is unhappy, our nature is to attempt to please them, even if their unhappiness makes NO SENSE.
RE: The Cancelled Date Continued
@rick4911 --- You are right---some women are users/narcissistic/controlling.Most men though are masculine/confident enough though---NOT TO STAND FOR IT. Most women are more gentle, and more easily stepped on. It is our (feminine) nature to please. A man's nature, and tradition, usually keep men from being affected as badly by this behavior. Yes it happens--but less often, don't you think?