I go to church when I feel like it and sometimes I make the effort and get up extra early so that i can go to a church in Valencia city that holds a sung mass in latin, it has an enormous organ and the choir is brilliant.
it has a crocodile at the entrance... I wonder what it has to do with the church though!
We have two issues here: long distance relationships and men’s unfaithfulness.
Long distance relationships: I know love conquers all so long distance relationship can be possible; of course, the warm feeling of having somebody next to you in bed is replaced by a huge pillow and it’s not the same.
Men’s unfaithfulness: men (in my opinion) tend to be easily aroused by any passing beautiful girl whereas a woman isn’t. A woman needs more than just to look at somebody to get that tingle. So I guess that explains it all. That doesn’t mean they are unfaithful every time they see somebody that pleases their lower half, they have no control over it… I’ll stop here or I’ll get lynched!
Jalousie is not an option for me; I’m not a jealous person, maybe because I’m over confident or perhaps because I might have never loved anyone to the point of being jealous. Am I incapable of love? No, I’m not. I can love but I don’t like to tie.
In any case, jalousie doesn’t bring anything good and it’s a waste of energy. (Always according to me, of course; some people might thing differently.)
Love is what counts, not if the other half talks or even flirts a little bit with someone else. If love is there to start with, love is felt and that’s all there is to it.
What would I do with a jealous one? Show him the door. I had a boyfriend like that once… One day he came to pick me up from work, and that was me thinking..Isn’t he nice that he comes to get me? But the thing is, he hadn’t come to pick me up at work exactly, I spotted him half hiding on the route to the bus and every time I said hello to anybody, especially other young men (I was young then) he’d ask who that was and how did I know them and and and and… then he started to pick me up from work and take me straight home so that I wouldn’t stray I suppose. I was young then and it took me a while to react. Now I wouldn’t think twice about reacting.
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RE: What is your biggest motivating factor?
pride = no goodprofit = it goes away
need = that motivates me to get going
love = comes in the needs category
fear = I only fear spiders! and then.. not that much!