Whisperingfaith Forum Posts (3)

RE: Alone

Scammers, when they know they are aboutt to get caught, change their profile... I have seen this on the men side, some posting the same picture with different nick name.. but the info is mostly the same because I believe they don't know what else to say...and a scammer feels trap, is when heLshe decide to create a new profile, but they never disappeard...

RE: Interesting how our thinking changes with age

Well, I never mentioned that we know each other, you did. I can't accept the term that you know me, because its not true. You don't know me, but we met, and it was a pleasant date. I do have faith, otherwise I wouldn't keep trying on this site, where I have met a couple of wonderful men, who earned my respect, and my friendship, you included.

And with all the respect you deserve, you have met wonderful women, and let them go with the many excuses your brain brings. I learned from you to be creative with our profile. So what I want or need is written there. And I'm not rushing it because there's no need, what is meant to be, would be and if not, keep smiling. All we have to do is to be honest in our profiles. Be honest with what you really want, women age range, race, eyes color, and so on. You like petit very slim ladies with hazel or blue eyes. So keep that in your profile and not the ANY word all over it. If age matters to, then post the right age you looking for. And don't give hopes. If in the first date, you knew nothing was going to happened, be honest, we women appreciate that, meaning you are not wasting your time and we are not keeping our hopes wondering about a possibility, because one way or the other, it hurts. No need to apologized about everything, be you, the way you really are, and if you can get divorced, much better, don't wait to long, its not comfortable.

I consider you an amazing man, and you are not shy but cautious, smart. I'm fine and having a blast. Your girl is somewhere out there. I wish for you happiness, you know that. One last advice? Don't close the door with so many locks, you might be closing the door for ever to that woman. Adios amigo.

RE: Interesting how our thinking changes with age

Well, if that makes you feel better and you are sure a young girl is going after you, the man, and after what you can offer her as a man, always remembering her age, then why not, go for it...if you inside you believe she's not after anything material, if you belikeve she won't go after any of your sons, then go for it, why not?...if you believe you can keep her pace, go for it...if you believe you are going to feel secure and in peace and happy, go for it...and if there's a desire for a commitment, is she going to be there, for good, in bad? Are you going to be there also and won't let her down? Or are you looking just for a friend with benefits?
Men shiould be clear with what they really want in their lives, also us women... me? I'm happy with my goals because I know what I want, and what my heart really desire and I'm lucky, better said, blessed. I'm proud of my age, whom I am, what I have become, I know where I'm standing. I'm not dreaming, I'm living reality. Next to me, by my side? All I want and need is a man who's honest first to himself, who appreciate everything in life, who is strong in goals and thoughts as he aged by my side..a man who's respect me and is proud of me...a man who can love me as I am...what I have to offer that man? Other than respect, admiration and a daily smile and a hug? I offer that man, all my love, my sincere love...
Please, my apologies if this sound disrespectful to anyone here...good luck