Although I do not like to be manipulated in my life, I think that some kind of manipulation is always needed to date someone. The vigorousness of manipulation depends on the interest one has. E.g. if a woman wants to get married to a rich or handsome man, she will try to lead him towards it and vice versa.
RE: Chocolate - in the fridge or not?
I had it in the fridge, but it lost taste. Now i keep it in a kitchen cabinet. I prefer 99% dark chocolate, only a little piece, that gives a kick