This is a very good question. Personally i feel any place which is calm, where we could concentrate on each other is good. Certainly i wouldnt prefer to go to a restaurant because my concentration on understanding her will get diluted with how do i place my knife and fork back, how do i use my napkin, which dish to order and stuff like that.
First, i liked Sweetcherry's attitude. Second, Bigbossboom's Story is very romantic.
I believe the question was to ask 'how do we find the right partner' ?? Because for me 'True love', is always there when two people are in a relationship. As far as me concerned, humans cannot 'Love' with same intensity on the same person through out..... the intensity varies over time and even it could change to totally different person too... So considering that true love will always be there if we find the right partner, lets move on to the question 'how do we find the right partner ?' - by this, are we trying to ask for a person, with same prefrences, same thoughts ?? - that mostly is not possible, because atleast i believe there is no two persons with 'same everything'. There comes a factor 'adjustablity'. Atleast in my opinion, adjustablity is the sole factor for success of any relationship. You can see this evidently from the success of many many marriages in India. For this i am not saying, you should bite your teeth and hold your breath for anything and everything, in the name of 'adjustablity'. choose yourself with 2 or 3 very important, non comprimisable aspects and find a partner accordingly and rest of life should role in with adjustablity.
After all, there is more pleasure in giving than in taking. Eventually wouldnt we experience an unconditional, true love then ??
And who ever feels lonely. dont you worry, we are all lonely together ;-)
I wish every body get their right partner and live life happily ever after :-)
1. Make love to my 'special someone' tonight itself. 2. World peace and happiness (yeah, i am free to think other things now ;-) ) 3. What ever wish I make in future should come true ;-)
RE: Hello!!!
Hey Lisa, Welcome to CS and its forumsHave a nice week ahead