Sphynx1 Forum Posts (4)

RE: How important is dating?

You word in god's ear. Hey you are from Okotoks? Cool i used to live there.
Nice to see that someone besides me is not from Ontario. No offence guys but you kind of rule the forums here and we have to change that lol

RE: how far do you expand your search for love by kms?

If you meet that special someone and you both feel the same for each other then no distance will keep you appart.
But a limitation on distance should be given. Since i live out in the country i would say 100km is fair.
Some people drive 100km just to get a cup of timmies coffee and they wouldn't do that for the person they are dating?
Well then go and date the coffeepot i say lol
If its meant to be then you will work something out to fix the distance problem.

RE: How important is dating?

I would say that dating is important. It doesn't matter if it is over coffee or in a restaurant or a lounge.
It is a way of getting to know the other person and to get the feel for each other.
I am now seperated just over 3 months and i am absolutely terrified to start dating again. But eventually we all have to get the guts together, jump back in the cold water and learn how to swim again.
I have been married for 8 years and never really had to worry about dating but all of a sudden i find myself back in the game and i think omg what am i going to do if someone really answers to my messages i have send out.
I am new to this too and i feel kind of silly but i see that i am not the only person here who is new to the online dating thing and as long as we stick a little together i guess we can do anything lol.

I wish the happy couple with the love at first sight all the best for your future and may you be happy till the end of your days!! It is nice to hear that there is still something like love at first sight

RE: I would like to hear from others about how they dealt with courts drama over kids

I guess this subject is a hot one with many couples who ended their relationship.
Well i myself left my husband of 8 years, just over 3 months ago. But we came to agreement that no matter what the kids are left out of everything.
I moved from Edmonton AB to a small town in Manitoba and now visits are a problem.
He tries to come out here when ever he gets a chance. I just couldn't stay in AB because i had noone there and all my family is here.
I didn't want to make it hard for him to visit but moving was the only way i could get my life back in order.
He does talk to the kids on the phone and does not mind that we are so far away even though he would like to see them more often he does understand my point too.
Thats why i agreed that he could come and visit any time and once the kids are old enought to travel on their own i have no problem with it if they go and visit their dad for a couple of weeks. Or over holidays.
Even the entire summer is fine! I want my children to be happy and to know that they are loved no matter what!!! Their wellfare is my first concern nothing else counts. If they are not happy i am not happy simple as that.
And i don't see the point to drag the kids into something they have no control over?! It is not their fault that we (the parents) called the quits.
All i can say is i wish the women or men, either way, should think twice befor they put their kids through pain, hurt and suffering. Because that will leave scars and sometimes these wounds don't heal right either.
If kids are being pulled into all of this then it is to 99% to hurt the other party.
I do hope things work out for you Carch i really do because a father has rights too and you sound like you do care for and love your kids very much.
Good luck!!!!