I just thought I'd point out that you've asked a question saying "Is it a turn off or a turn on" , but only given a "Yes, no" Option to respond. Maybe if you changed the options to "Turn off", "Turn on" and "Not sure", then you'd get a more clear response :) I personally think strong women are more attractive :)
RE: would you pefer to live in a
Aah interesting! That's a fair point :) My parents live on a farmhouse, on a farm. But I hadn't considered the old farmhouses :)