Kimmer1, i agree with you. To be honest, i, too, do not respond to 'notes/flowers' sent to me. I quickly review the sender's profile and photo, make a decision, then either i delete the note and block them, or i send them an email. If the sender requests an email back whether i'm interested or not, i do exactly that and just send a message with a 'no, thanks' on the subject line and tell them that i don't think we're compatible.
In person or online dating, attraction is still of importance, whether it is in actual meeting with someone or via photo. This, combined with what little personality we all get from someone's profile and background (providing the information given is an honest truth), it is only a matter of a few seconds to make that decision.
but i agree with everyone here, do what you're comfortable with. but then again, change is sometimes good. that's when you find out if you really like something or not...
since you seem to be open to change right now, perhaps it is time... like you said, it can always grow back. some people don't have that option.
RE: Breath in deeply and count to 10
Kimmer1, i agree with you. To be honest, i, too, do not respond to 'notes/flowers' sent to me. I quickly review the sender's profile and photo, make a decision, then either i delete the note and block them, or i send them an email. If the sender requests an email back whether i'm interested or not, i do exactly that and just send a message with a 'no, thanks' on the subject line and tell them that i don't think we're compatible.In person or online dating, attraction is still of importance, whether it is in actual meeting with someone or via photo. This, combined with what little personality we all get from someone's profile and background (providing the information given is an honest truth), it is only a matter of a few seconds to make that decision.