we can get pretty gross here. I think there has to be some limits when it comes to age. I mean you can't be too old to where you can be a mother or father to the person you are showing interest or grandma or grandpa in this case because there are some young grandparents too out there. I try to practice the '10 year rule'. It doesn't really exist because I just made it up. The '10 year rule' is 5 years younger or 5 years older. Then again, there can be some exceptions such as the maturation level of the two people. But I am still going to fall back at the beginning. Aaron.
karen, for some reason, i am imagining you being an animal in bed and an animal who does like it big. Me? from a guys view and from experience from women, size does matter but what really matters is if you can move your hips really good and rub the spot really good to get her going.
well, i personally believe you have to be visually attracted to the person first. that is what attracts you to talk to the person. let's be honest. then, as you talk to the person you notice his/her personal qualities you become more attracted. 3 things have to be involved to stay with someone. physical attraction, communication connection, spiritual attraction, and intimate connection. we just need to go out and play "catch and release fishing".
andy was right. my philosophy is "there is plenty of fish in the sea. for closure, what you can do is-although this is displacing your frustration-date someone like him and then make closure with that person. i did the samething but fortunately and unfortunately i married her and now we are getting separated. the separation was not my idea alone. things just fizzled out but atleast there is closure to a woman i have not been able to get out of my head or heart for 10 years.
RE: Is age just a number????
we can get pretty gross here. I think there has to be some limits when it comes to age. I mean you can't be too old to where you can be a mother or father to the person you are showing interest or grandma or grandpa in this case because there are some young grandparents too out there. I try to practice the '10 year rule'. It doesn't really exist because I just made it up. The '10 year rule' is 5 years younger or 5 years older. Then again, there can be some exceptions such as the maturation level of the two people. But I am still going to fall back at the beginning.Aaron.