comogal Forum Posts (2)

RE: Fakes, phonies, pretenders, time wasters

Here is one lady that has an interest in meeting someone!

I think we should talk about the guys who are "pretenders and time wasters."

I met a guy through this site. We sent messages back and forth, then we spoke on the phone a couple of times. We made plans to get together and he never showed up. He sent me a message a few days later saying his dad was in the hospital. I responded, sending best wishes for his dad and asking him to call me sometime. I have sent him a few messages over the past week and although he is reading my messages, he is not responding.

I understand that he may still be working through his father being sick, but why ignore my messages. If he can take the 10 seconds to open the message, why not take 10 seconds to respond, even if it is something like "I am dealing with a lot of family stuff and I don't have time to get to know someone right now."

Maybe I shouldn't let it bother me, but it does. The whole situation just hurts. I was really looking forward to getting to know this guy.

I agree with you TrueNorth, but it is not just women!

RE: "Relocation, Relocation, Relocation"

I would move back to Virginia. I was born and raised there--all my family and friends are there as well; I moved to Misery, I mean Missouri for a job.