Azflower2016 Forum Posts (1)

RE: What women want

I am a woman and I feel the same way. Would like to know what are AZ men really want? Someone wrote below:
"....each woman and her wants & needs is different. I say just be you and if that doesn't work, you're with the wrong person." I agree. I would say, read profiles carefully. I mean read profiles without contacting anyone for some time. You will get a better idea who people are and what they really looking for. Soon, you will be able to see their values. I, personally, am interested to find a man with similar to mine mindset, values, and goals. It is not easy.
What knocks me off is how easy men come up with their personal information for me to contact them or asking me to contact them? Who in the right mind will share personal information like phone numbers, emails addresses with a person you know nothing about? And they do not even read profiles, because I stated clearly in my profile asking not to offer me phone numbers, etc. A man who does not even read your profile... what does it tell me? Do you know how many out there picture collectors, email collectors, etc.? After they get this information they disappear. What they do with your information - think about it.
If you have serious intentions, maybe you should look for her at the gym or anywhere else because men admitted that a lot of women on free sites are looking just for fun and one night stand. So, because of that those who look for something more meaningful get frustrated. And the women say something like: well, we do what men do. So, no one to blame. Equality in attitude prevails.
Why do you need to flirt? Maybe she does not like those who flirt.
Just be who you are. You will feel better. In my opinion, a man should ask for a phone number if there is mutual attraction, but not after the first date. What do women want should be in their profiles. If it is not clear then, I think, she does not know what she wants. See if interests are the same. Just my 5 cents.