That sounds a lot like my ex because her friends would contact me through my phone and would give me nothing but death threats (from shooting me to and I would respond back in self-defense and even told them if they didn't back off I would get the law involved and after I hang up on them, she would call me and would say things like "what is the matter with you?" "Don't threaten my friends." "They were only trying to help." and when I explain the situation, she would claim they didn't threaten me and even go as far as saying "I was right there, watching and listening. They didn't threaten you." and we would get into a big argument about it. In the end, after we broke up for the final time, it turned out that she was making false claims about me, even twisting some things around make herself the victim and me the villain, like this one time I was tickling her belly and she kept squirming like crazy and even tried pushing my arm away and at some point, my arm did some sort of rubber band thing and I accidentally hit her. I apologized like crazy about it and I immediately stopped cause I didn't want to hit her again and she told her friends that I asked her to do something, she said no, and then I struck her. I never struck a woman and I openly apologize and stop if I did by accident and all I can say is that I'm accident-prone.
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RE: "Defensive narcissist"
Well, we never actually married. We were engaged. But I'm just glad to be away from that lunatic. Lol