Disagree ... most women do the initial communication, only guys don't notice the subtle body language.
So if you look at it that way, women get rejected WAY more than guys.
If your gonna approach, it also doesn't matter much what you say (although asking a woman her opinion of something is good). Being comfortable with yourself and it coming across in your voice tonality/body language is more important.
Also, Everyone is interesting in their own way and have their own passions. Just put this across.
Finally, don't hang around a woman like a stalker ... there not gonna like that ... been there ... and those women had NO success with me... LOL
RE: Just wondering (ladies)
Dude,It's more important to be happy and content with yourself. Physical appearances are all that important.
BTW - I haven't seen your photo (and I'm straight, in case your worried!! )
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